Men's Health Lecture: Do you really understand premature ejaculation?

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Many people have many myths and incorrect concepts about premature ejaculation. Before talking about the treatment of premature ejaculation, let's talk about what premature ejaculation is. According to the traditional research standard of the World Andrology Association, it is defined as "premature ejaculation" when a male's penis enters the vagina for one minute or 10 ejaculation. In other words, as long as you count the time with a watch, it is not called premature ejaculation if it exceeds one minute, and you can tell your partner openly and righteously: "I don't have premature ejaculation." If you are unhappy, it is entirely your problem! May I? I don't think it is easy for anyone to buy this "one minute" or "10 strokes", especially modern people who demand mutual benefit between the sexes and give priority to the quality of sex life.

Then why is there such a narrow definition in medicine? Because the purpose of traditional medicine is practical and reproductive, one minute or ten is enough, but as for the discomfort is measured by the feeling in the heart, it is difficult to define it practically. Therefore, sexology scholars jump out and say, How much time, as long as both parties are satisfied, how much time is not a problem. "Satisfaction" has become the new favorite of modern people to measure their inner feelings. "Satisfaction" comes from "control". Under the circumstances, no matter one minute or two minutes, five minutes or ten minutes, half an hour or one hour, as long as both parties feel comfortable, time is not the scope of satisfaction consideration.

It sounds like many men are about to cry again. If you want to achieve the ultimate and make both parties happy, how can it take so long? Pushing anything to the extreme is a fallacy. For this reason, medical sexologists have done a large-scale study counting 10,000 people,

How long does it take to be "on average" satisfied? The answer came out, about 7.2 minutes. oh! It turns out that it only takes 7-8 minutes, and many men are relieved. It turns out that they don't need to be exhausted, and it only takes about 10 minutes. Similarly, in our basic research on sex therapy, according to anonymous surveys, the needs of men and women for sex time are really the same as the surveys. The happy time is about ten minutes. It depends on your own needs, because how short it is Both require the passion of both parties, and the physical strength of both parties will be needed for how long it takes.

Sex is the connection between psychology and physiology. Psychology represents the passion of the brain, physiology represents the sensitivity of the penis, and the distance between heart and body represents the satisfaction of enjoying sex at the same time. To put it simply, masturbation without doing any imaginary stimulation will never be the same as watching movies with both hands and brain. Masturbation by one person is not the same as helping the other party under emotion, and having sex with the other party is even more Different, therefore, it is impossible to practice love by yourself from the beginning to the end. Even if self-training is good, at most one person is good, and two people are good. The practice of both parties is indispensable, so it is true that there is someone who is willing to accompany you to practice Very important.

In terms of treatment, the traditional approach to premature ejaculation is to treat the heart and life separately. That is, physical and psychological desensitization. The method of physiological desensitization is nothing more than surgical nerve block (also known as penile sensitive minimally invasive surgery), or superficial paralysis with drugs. Psychology is the use of anti-anxiety drugs that go up the brain, with the intention of relaxing the nerves. This is the basic way of medical treatment. If the above methods are effective, congratulations, the problem is not big, but if it still does not work, it is not that the drugs or methods are not effective , but what you need is sexual therapy that integrates body and mind. (This article is compiled from Songfu official website

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