'Without a hymen, you are incomplete', what is the use of this membrane? Don't be brainwashed by men
Xiaoyue (pseudonym) is 26 years old this year. Some time ago, she went to the hospital for a physical examination. During the gynecological examination, she was asked by the doctor whether she had any sexual experience . Although feeling puzzled, Xiaoyue still truthfully stated that she had never had a relationship with a man.
After the doctor confirmed it, he told Xiaoyue that " this test can't be done, it will destroy the hymen ". Xiaoyue couldn't believe it, and after confirming again and again, the doctor still refused to examine her because she was afraid of being held accountable!
In the end, Xiaoyue had to skip this check.
In 2020, some patients were refused surgery three times due to "hymen". The patient with uterine polyps finally went to three hospitals and changed five doctors before successfully completing the operation. The reason why the doctor refused before was also because he was afraid of damaging the hymen and taking responsibility.
Seeing this, I believe that many people, like Uncle Jiu, couldn't help asking questions: Is that layer of membrane more important than health? Not even surgery?
1. The hymen is born broken
In recent years, medical disputes caused by "breaking the hymen " have appeared from time to time, and in these medical disputes, very few doctors have won the lawsuit. Therefore, doctors have always become extra vigilant in the face of operations or examinations that may damage the patient's hymen .
From this perspective, doctors are also victims of "hymen culture".
For a long time, " hymen culture " has been kidnapping girls . Many men think that hymen is a symbol of virginity. The first experience is "broken virginity". She is "unclean"...
This layer of membrane even caused a lot of disputes, "the female college student's hymen was pierced when she saw a doctor, and she filed a claim against the hospital", "the doctor refused to operate because she was afraid of bearing the consequences of a ruptured hymen", and some doctors posted that "the hospital caused the patient's hymen to rupture. , to bear spiritual compensation."
However, what many people don't know is that this membrane is born to be broken .
Clinically, the real name of the hymen is " urethral valve " and " vaginal valve ", which is a layer of transverse mucosal folds at the bottom wall of the female urogenital vestibule and vagina, mainly used to protect the inside of the vagina.
The shape of the hymen varies from person to person . It can be umbrella-shaped, half-moon-shaped, ring-shaped, lip-shaped, or sieve-shaped. Most women have this thin membrane, and very few women are born without it. This layer of membrane is not closed, it is "broken" itself, with holes of various shapes to facilitate the flow of menstrual blood.
The complete hymen without holes that many people pursue is actually a kind of pathology , clinically called "atresia", which is one of the causes of women's dysmenorrhea.
In daily life, this thin layer of hymen may be ruptured, which may be caused by sexual behavior for the first time, cycling, horse riding, splits, heavy physical labor and other sports.
Second, there is really no need for revision surgery
Many women will pursue the integrity of the hymen due to the eyes of the society, and advertisements for hymen repair surgery can be seen everywhere in China. Is it really necessary to repair the hymen?
Hymen repair surgery, after the patient is given local anesthesia, the doctor trims the ruptured hymen neatly with scissors, and then sutures it with absorbable sutures or nylon threads, leaving a small hole in the ruptured membrane that can only pass through a finger. If the hymen is severely ruptured, a part of the patient's mucous membrane will be taken and another one will be created.
This operation is relatively simple and can usually be completed in half an hour, but no matter how big or small the operation is, there are certain risks .
First of all, the site of this operation is relatively special, and it is easy to be polluted by secretions, feces and urine, etc. The risk of postoperative infection is high, and postoperative complications may occur.
Secondly, because regular hospitals require real-name registration when performing such operations, many women are worried about being discovered, so they choose private clinics or even black clinics . Once the operation is not standardized, the infection rate is higher, and even infertility may result. risk.
3. Regarding women, these cognitions are also wrong
In life, the misunderstanding about women is not limited to the " hymen ", we must also correctly understand the following two points.
1. Gynecological inflammation ≠ rich private life
It is a kind of prejudice to equate gynecological inflammation with rich private life.
Gynecological inflammation is an inflammatory disease that occurs in the female reproductive system, including vaginitis, cervicitis, endometritis and so on. The occurrence of the disease has a certain relationship with sexual life, but women who do not have sexual life may also have gynecological inflammation-related problems , such as not paying attention to hygiene, imbalance of flora, low autoimmunity, unauthorized medication, etc. These factors can lead to female reproduction Systemic infection, leading to varying degrees of inflammatory disease.
2. Will the tampon damage the membrane?
At present, tampons are not affirmed by many people in the country, and even boyfriends would mind if a woman uses tampons, just because it may "pierce" the hymen.
In fact, the above explanation of the hymen is enough. The hymen itself has holes, so why is it said that it is "punctured" by a tampon? In addition, the diameter of the hole on the hymen is usually 1.9cm, and the diameter of the tampon does not exceed 1.5cm. In theory, as long as it is used correctly, the tampon is not enough to destroy this membrane.
Despite the advancement of medicine and the gradual openness of thought, the " hymen culture " is still the shackles that imprison women. In fact, this thin membrane is almost useless when a woman becomes an adult. How can the value of a woman be defined by this small hymen? Does the relationship between lovers need this film to prove it?
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