When women reach middle age, will their physical needs be stronger than men's? Be rational, don't be shy

Xiaojiu asked the girls a question: Do you feel that in the days before and after menstruation, your physiological needs seem to be particularly strong?

A few days ago, Xiaojiu received a request from a fan. The general content was:

"I had my period two days ago, which is very common, but I always feel that the desire in that area seems to have become a lot stronger. Thinking about it carefully, it seems that during this special period of every month, the physiological needs will become stronger.

Last month, I was really uncomfortable, so I invited my boyfriend to be with me, but he refused, saying that this is not good for my health, but I actually feel nothing, is it really harmful to have sex during menstruation? "

Regarding the secrets of women's physiological needs, Xiao Jiu will chat with you today.

1. Why does desire become stronger before and after menstruation?

Many women may have experienced this situation, and they always feel impulsive a few days before their period. In fact, desire and the menstrual cycle have a lot to do.

After menstruation, women secrete more estrogen in their bodies. At this time, women are energetic and more active in sexual life.

14 to 15 days after the menstrual cramp is the ovulation period. At this time, the level of estrogen reaches its peak , and women’s physical and psychological cravings and desires are filled. If they are not satisfied, they will appear nervous, irritable and other emotions.

After ovulation, the secretion of estrogen decreases, the female desire decreases, and the female demand for sex also weakens. But as menstruation comes again, estrogen levels rise again, and the desire is "awakened" again, resulting in a strong sense of need. Especially during the menstrual period, when estrogen rises sharply, women will also become irritable and have strong desires.

So the question is, is it possible to have intercourse during menstruation? Honestly, yes, but not recommended, for two main reasons:

①It is possible to get pregnant during menstruation

Some sperm are very tenacious and can survive in the woman's body for several days. If the woman ovulates early, it may lead to an unintended pregnancy.

② Menstrual intercourse is not good for women's health

During intercourse, men may bring bacteria into women's bodies, and blood is the best medium for bacteria. At this time, women's cervix is ​​opened, which is easy to cause vaginitis, cervicitis and other diseases.

2. Women are "30 like a wolf, forty like a tiger", is it true or false?

I believe that many people have heard the saying that women are "thirty like a wolf, forty like a tiger". Many men think that women are "difficult to serve", but in fact, it is not that women's needs are stronger, but that men are less frequent.

When women are in their 20s and 40s, their sexual needs are in a relatively stable stage, and there will be basically no major changes. At this time, men's desire for sex decreases year by year due to the decline in androgen levels.

Although sex is human nature, there are times when a sudden increase in sexual desire may be a signal of disease:

1. Nervous system diseases

When neurological diseases such as stroke, traumatic brain injury, epilepsy, etc. occur, it can cause brain dysfunction and weaken the inhibitory function of the central nervous system.

2. Malignant tumor

When tumors occur in the brain, adrenal cortex, testis, etc., the endocrine balance of the body will be broken, and the concentration of androgen in the body will increase, which will lead to increased male desire.

3. Hyperthyroidism

Hyperthyroidism, especially mild hyperthyroidism, 10% to 20% of people will have hypersexuality, which is due to endocrine disorders, causing hormone levels to rise, resulting in sexual excitement.

4. Mania

Sexual desire is influenced by endocrine and mental factors. Some menopausal women are prone to manic symptoms, and this mental disorder can easily lead to a decrease in the ability to inhibit sexual excitement, leading to a tendency to hypersexuality.

Of course, it does not mean that strong sexual desire means suffering from the above-mentioned diseases. It is just that the sexual desire becomes stronger for no reason. We should be alert to the possibility of disease, and go to the hospital as soon as possible to check whether it is caused by the disease.

3. What should I do if the "physiological needs" are not synchronized?

Affected by various factors such as age and hormones, men and women may face a situation where their needs are not synchronized. How to strengthen communication between the two parties at this time?

In fact, when it comes to sex, we don't need to "avoid" too much. Harmonious intercourse has many benefits to life - sex life can help relieve psychological pressure, help maintain reproductive organ function, slow down aging, and prevent insomnia, neurasthenia and other senile diseases . So how to have a harmonious husband and wife living in the same room?

strengthen communication

Good communication is very important in a harmonious sexual life. The greatest function of sex is the pleasure of both parties. If you do not communicate in time, the two parties will easily cause misunderstandings and greatly reduce the sense of experience.

Therefore, boldly express your needs and discomfort to your partner, and in the case of respecting your partner, you can find a balance between both parties to avoid misunderstandings and injuries.

get ready

Between the sexes, generally male desires are more impulsive and come and go in a hurry, while women, on the contrary, like to be gradual.

In the "Journal of Sexual Medicine", a survey found that women have an average of about 15.4 minutes of foreplay. Therefore, both parties should pay attention to foreplay before sex, such as kissing, hugging, caressing, etc., so that it is easier to obtain a high-quality experience.

get enough sleep

According to relevant research, sleep can make partners gain full energy, so that both parties can have more lasting and more satisfying sexual intercourse. On the contrary, lack of sleep can easily reduce desire and become powerless.

take more exercise

In addition to intimate sports, you should also pay attention to physical exercise every day to improve your physical condition, so as to better improve your sexual ability and increase your desire for sex.

Don’t be burdened with sexual desire. You must know that sex is an act of human beings to please themselves. Having fun with someone you like is a very happy thing in itself. Look in the right direction, actively improve, enjoy beauty together, and embrace health.

References:

[1] "Sudden hypersexuality is a disease signal". Family Doctor Online. 2008-10-27

[2] "82% of women say sex is "a little painful" | How to have a harmonious sex life? ". Eleventh Clinic. 2021-04-13

[3] "I heard that women are "thirty like wolves and forty like tigers", is this true? Male compatriots are not calm...". Family Doctor. 2019-03-23

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