Zhengzhou Depression: What if a depressed person refuses psychological counseling?

First, the role of a good persuasive relationship

This is the most useful way for family members to express their concern, but the failure rate is very high, the effect is not good in the process, and it is often counterproductive. To achieve good results, we must first understand the underlying reasons why patients refuse to seek medical treatment, and let patients realize that they need treatment through induction and encouragement. For example, if you are worried about privacy, tell him a strict confidentiality system; to fight depression, to check your body to relieve stress, etc.

The way of persuasion is important. Listen more and talk less, be patient, and avoid negative words like "don't do..." and "don't say...". Spend more time with him and let him have a sense of trust in you, which will make it easier for him to succeed.

Second, hide the sky and cross the sea

When encountering stubborn and determined patients, use other methods to cheat. This technique needs to be used according to the patient's personality characteristics. For example, for some extreme personalities, it is necessary to consider whether they will do extraordinary things, and the consequences may be uncontrollable. But cheating is not a good way after all, it is recommended to use it with caution.

Common words: "Mom and dad have been fighting from time to time recently. We would like to consult a family counselor. You are also part of the family. Inviting you to participate in counseling contributes to our family atmosphere." Psychological motives will spontaneously and automatically shift in the direction of our concern.

Third, "mandatory"

Some patients who endanger themselves, others, or society are forced to be admitted to the hospital. In serious cases, they can turn to the police for help. Depression is a disease with a high suicide rate. If something happens, regret is useless.

What about mild depression patients?

If a patient with mild depression knows his condition and firmly expresses his desire for self-regulation, but he does not meet the standards for medical treatment, then the patient's right to make his or her own choice must be respected, and the above method is not applicable. In daily life, family members of patients should give more care and companionship to patients to help patients recover.