How to educate children to get rid of timidity and become more brave?
After knowing the reason for the child's timidity, at this time, the most urgent thing for parents is to understand the fear in the child's heart. Timid kids don't feel safe setting foot in certain situations, so what are they afraid of? This is the crux of the problem and the key to solving it. Parents should be the first to notice once a child has symptoms of timidity. At this time, considerate parents must first appease their children's emotions. After the child calms down, try to ask him to describe what he is afraid of, is it a person or a thing, or a certain scene? Let the children believe that as long as they talk about their fears, with the love of their parents, the problem will be solved.
The next step is to help children eliminate fear and overcome timidity. If the child is afraid of strangers, parents should tell the child in advance who the visitors are and what their name is, so that the child has a general understanding of strangers and eliminates the sense of distance from strangers. Of course, parents also need to teach their children the skills of dealing with people, so that their hearts can settle down first, and they can meet strangers with confidence, so as to avoid being at a loss and becoming more timid. If the child is only afraid of a certain person, parents may wish to communicate with this person, explain the child's fear of him, let him change his image, let the child feel his affinity, and then let the child contact him, and gradually eliminate the child's psychology Fear, let children get more fun in interacting with others.
Children's fear of the environment is mostly due to distrust and ignorance of the unknown world, such as darkness, ghosts and so on. At this time, parents need to give their children a scientific explanation, take them to explore the unknown world, let them understand that nature is very real, there are no ghosts at all, the scenery in the dark is exactly the same as in the sun, only the light makes people see I don't know. In this way, the child will naturally be bolder.
In addition, timidity in some formal situations is also a problem for adults. It is necessary to give children a little self-confidence. After being fully prepared and showing it on such occasions, they will be less timid and inferior.
It should be pointed out that parents must not take the lead in frightening their children, let alone laugh at their timidity. Doing so will only strengthen their timidity and make them form a bad self-perception in their hearts-"I am a coward", and then become more timid.