Top 10 Reasons Parents Trigger Children's Rebellion!
Many parents ignore some of their children's behaviors, thinking that it is the child's playfulness and bad temper, but it is actually a behavioral expression of the child's rebellious emotions. When parents discover their child's rebellious behavior, they must seriously consider when the child's behavior began, under what circumstances, and what caused it... For parents themselves, they must examine their own negative behavior and try to avoid the following ten negative parenting behavior:
- Yelling and beating at children
Compared with beating and scolding, scolding is the most common and common negative behavior of parents, and it can also encourage children's rebellious and provocative behaviors. On the surface, correcting the child's mistakes is successful, but the mistakes are only temporary lurking, which will only lead to more roars and even abuse in the future.
- Criticism, random judgment
The child broke the classroom window. Don't scold the child directly, and don't judge the child's character by this. Instead, we should analyze the consequences of the child's behavior and then provide constructive feedback. The critical attitude of parents can make children feel that their self-worth is denied and hurt their self-esteem. Children who are often criticized see themselves as rejected, unloved, and helpless.
- Repeated nagging
Parents often resort to one trick after beating, scolding, and criticizing to no avail, repeating the same words to their children countless times. In fact, the child doesn't care at all. Instead, they will refuse to listen, becoming more defensive and bored. Nagging destroys the most important parent-child relationship. Only when the relationship with the child is close enough, the child will do what he should do according to your request.
- Interrupting the child
When communicating with your child, do not interrupt the child. You should give him a chance to complete his sentence. Recently a video of a little girl is very popular. A four or five-year-old girl was sitting on the bed crying. Parents repeatedly interrupt their children with mocking or casual tones, making excuses and causing their children to lose control. However, parents are free to take videos. Let your child finish and then say what you want to say. This is a minimum of courtesy and respect. If the little girl in the video is often not respected, she will gradually resist communicating with her parents, and her rebellious emotions will germinate inadvertently.