Your mother sweeps the trash! Two kinds of children's responses to ridicule determine different trends in life

Every parent wants to have a decent job, so that they can provide their children with a good life, but the social division of labor is different and people's abilities are different, so all walks of life have appeared. I don't know when it started, children Comparisons began between them. My family has a big car, does yours have one? My father is the big boss, is your father? If it is a child in kindergarten, it may be just a simple comparison. What if the child has grown up and sensible? Parents' occupations may bring them pride, or they may gain another difference.

Your mother turned out to be a trash sweeper!

I don't remember where I saw the video. A little boy came home from school and saw his mother waiting at the school gate from a distance. He didn't run over quickly to say hello to his mother, but lowered his head and trotted past his mother. His mother was a stranger. His mother called him a few times strangely, but the little boy pretended not to hear him and ran away quickly.

The next day, when the little boy went to school, the classmates next to him gathered around and said to him mockingly, "It turns out that your mother is a garbage sweeper, no wonder you never mentioned it. The little boy was silent after hearing this, and took out his book to do his homework alone. The scene returned home, the little boy returned home, and saw the cold stove, his mother had not come home, he waited until very late, and his mother dragged a tired figure. When I got home, I apologized to him as soon as I got home. The work was delayed, and the boy was completely angry. Why are you a garbage sweeper? I couldn't even lift my head up in front of my classmates.

The same scene appears on another girl, but the result is completely different

A 10-year-old girl and her classmates passed by on the road, and happened to meet her mother who was cleaning. The girl greeted her mother and walked by naturally. After the classmates found out, they asked the girl, Chen Si, it turns out that your mother is a garbage sweeper! The girl did not feel inferior alone like the boy, but answered domineeringly, my mother sweeps the garbage, my mother does not sweep the garbage or the streets, can you have such a clean road? Your mother is not qualified to come to sweep, and people don't want your mother to sweep!

After listening to the mother, she burst into tears. She was very pleased that her daughter could understand her work and be proud of her mother. The daughter did not have any prejudice against her mother's career, but instead defended her mother and protected her domineeringly, which made her really moved. Look My daughter has really grown up.

Promising children never look down on their parents' careers

The attitudes of the two types of children towards their mother’s occupation determine their choices in life. The first type of children obviously despise their mother and think that her occupation is the reason why they are ridiculed, so they become inferior and avoid, and their relationship with their mother is also getting more and more The worse, such a child is rooted in paying too much attention to other people's opinions of himself, and is also too vain and selfish. While looking down on his parents, he is at peace with his mother's hard-earned money. What he needs to correct should be his mentality, not persecution. Mom went to change careers to suit his vanity.

Such children always live in the eyes of others, they are inferior and sensitive. In life, there are many such people. If someone makes an unintentional mistake, he will think that he looks down on him, and a rebuke from the leader will also be rejected by him. If he is regarded as unpopular, others will become very tiring to get along with him. He must always protect his sensitive self-esteem and become a hedgehog that everyone avoids.

And when such a child grows up, it is also easy to become a "heavy in the nest" person. Outside, they do their best and always care about other people's opinions, but they will be bossy at home, especially to their parents. , instead of considering the lack of hard work, instead, they vent their unsatisfactory life and work to their parents, thinking that they have no ability to make themselves so bad, and such people, how can they be promising, and how can they be filial?

On the contrary, I personally admire the second kind of child very much. This girl named Chen Si, although only ten years old, has the demeanor of "the head of the family". She correctly understands her mother's occupation, and she deeply loves her mother. She can protect her mother when she is professionally ridiculed. She pays more attention to obtaining value through her own hands. Her heart is full of gratitude and respect for her mother, so she will say such domineering words in a hurry. Such a child will not She cares about other people's opinions, because she is strong and rich at heart. She will repay her mother's hard work by studying harder and try her best to make her mother live a good life. It is conceivable that she will be a hard worker when she grows up. , A girl who is positive and sunny at heart, such a child is more promising and can be respected by others.

Children's prejudice against their parents' occupations is actually related to family education

A mother took her little baby to take out the garbage. When she saw the old man who was collecting the garbage, the child pinched his nose in disgust, and said, walk away, it's really dirty. At this time, my mother came over and told her, how hard the old man is. He is so dirty because there is too much garbage. If there is no old man, can our environment be so beautiful? You have to thank the old man for his hard work, they made us cleaner with their hands. Yixi said that the child no longer disliked the old man. Maybe she couldn't understand the whole meaning, but with such a mother by her side, the child's growth cannot be wrong.

During the holidays, I also saw many children earn pocket money through their own labor, such as elementary school students who set up stalls at night markets, and children who help their parents sell watermelons. Back to the original question, if the mother of the little boy can always guide the child like this, tell the boy how hard it is, and tell him that there is no distinction between high and low occupations, and earning money through their own labor is the most honorable, then the child Will you still be ashamed of your mother when you grow up? He can grow up to be a child like Chen Si, so the growth of the child is inseparable from family education, so that the child's heart will become richer and stronger. This is a long way to go, and it is also something that parents need to think about.