Your mother is a garbage collector! Two kinds of children's responses to ridicule determine different trends in life

Every parent wants to have a decent job, so that they can provide their children with a good life, but the social division of labor is different, and people's abilities are also different, so there are all walks of life. I don't know when it started. Children There is also a comparison between them, my family has a big car, does yours have one? My dad is the big boss, is your dad? If it is a child in kindergarten, it may be just a simple comparison. What if the child has grown up and sensible? Parents' occupations may bring them pride, or they may gain another kind of difference.

Your mother turned out to be a garbage collector!

I don’t remember where I saw the video. A little boy came home from school and saw his mother waiting at the school gate from a distance. He didn’t run over to say hello to his mother, but lowered his head and trotted past his mother. His mother was a stranger, and his mother called him a few times in a strange way, but the little boy pretended not to hear him, and hurried away.

The next day, when the little boy went to school, his classmates gathered around and said to him mockingly, so your mother is a garbage collector, no wonder you never mentioned it. The little boy was silent after hearing this, and took out his book to do his homework alone. The scene returned home. The little boy came home and saw the cold stove. His mother hadn't come home yet. He waited until very late, and the mother dragged her tired figure When I got home, I apologized to him as soon as I got home. The work was delayed, and the boy was completely angry. Why are you a garbage collector? I can't hold my head up in front of my classmates.

The same scene appeared on another girl, but the result was completely different

A ten-year-old girl and her classmates passed by on the road, and happened to meet her mother who was cleaning. The girl greeted her mother and walked by naturally. After the classmate found out, she asked the girl, Chen Si, so your mother is a garbage collector! The girl did not feel inferior to the boy alone, but replied domineeringly, my mother sweeps the garbage, my mother does not sweep the garbage or the street, can you have such a clean road? Your mother is not qualified to sweep, and people don't want your mother to sweep!

After hearing this, the mother burst into tears. She was very pleased that her daughter could understand her work and be proud of her mother. The daughter did not have prejudice against her mother's profession. Instead, she aggressively defended and protected her mother, which really touched her. Come on, my daughter has really grown up.

Promising children never look down on their parents' careers

The attitudes of the two kinds of children towards their mother’s profession determine their choices in life. The first kind of children obviously look down on their mother and think that her profession is the reason for being ridiculed. Therefore, they become inferior and avoid, and their relationship with their mother is getting worse. Worse, the root cause of such a child is that he pays too much attention to what others think of him, and is too vain and selfish. While looking down on his parents, he spends his mother's hard-earned money with peace of mind. What he needs to correct is his mentality, not persecution Mom changed careers to cater to his vanity.

Such a child always lives under the eyes of others, with low self-esteem and sensitivity, and in life, such people abound. He will think that someone's unintentional mistake is to look down on him, and a reprimand from the leader will be reprimanded by him. If he is regarded as unpopular, it will be very tiring for others to get along with him. We must always protect his sensitive self-esteem and become a hedgehog that everyone avoids.

And when such a child grows up, it is easy to become a person who is "in the nest". He is submissive outside and always cares about other people's opinions, but he will boss around at home, especially for his parents. They are full of complaints. Instead of thinking about not working hard enough, he vents his unsatisfactory life and work to his parents, thinking that their incompetence is the reason why he is doing so badly. And such a person, how can he be promising, and how filial can he be?

On the contrary, I personally admire the second type of child very much. Although this girl named Chen Si is only ten years old, she has the demeanor of "the head of the family". When she is ridiculed by her profession, she can protect her mother. She pays more attention to gaining value through her own hands. Her heart is full of gratitude and respect for her mother. That's why she said such domineering words in a hurry. Such a child will not She cares about other people's opinions, because she is strong and rich in her heart, she will study harder to repay her mother's hard work, and try her best to let her live a good life. It is conceivable that when she grows up, she is a hard worker Girls who are positive, positive, and sunny in their hearts, such children are more promising and can be more respected by others.

Children's prejudice against their parents' occupations is actually related to family education

A mother took her baby to take out the trash. Seeing the old man collecting the trash, the child pinched his nose in disgust and said, go away, it's so dirty. At this time, my mother came over and said to her, how hard the old man is. He is so dirty because there is too much garbage. If there is no old man, can our environment be so beautiful? You have to thank the old people for their hard work, they make us cleaner through their hands. One sentence makes the child no longer dislike the old man, maybe she can't understand the whole meaning, but with such a mother by her side, the child's growth can't be wrong.

During the holidays, I also saw many children earn pocket money through their own labor, such as elementary school students setting up stalls in the night market, and children helping their parents sell watermelons. They are all gaining value and reducing the burden on their parents through their own methods, so Going back to the original question, if the mother of the little boy can often guide the child in this way, tell the boy how hard the mother is, and tell him that there is no distinction between high and low in career, and earning money through one's own labor is the most honorable, then the child Will you still be ashamed of your mother when you grow up? He can definitely grow into a child like Chen Si, so the growth of a child cannot be separated from family education, so that the child's heart becomes richer and stronger. This is a long way to go, and it is also something that parents need to think about.