Who will own the property in the future? The conversation between mother and daughter became popular, and the mother's answer was straightforward, and the friendship boat turned over

I don’t know when it started, there is a popular "send proposition" between mother and daughter, similar to "your mother and I fell into the water at the same time, who do you save first", the stem of this proposition is like this, the daughter asked her mother , who bought your new clothes, mother answered, my daughter bought it, who bought your necklace, my mother answered, my daughter bought it, who bought your ring, my mother’s answers are the same, my daughter bought it Yes, now that your daughter's style of painting has changed, who will you give the money you earn? The mother's answer is also quite straightforward, to the son! Then, my daughter's awkward laughter came, your thinking is so clear.

Regarding the distribution of property, whether there are only sons or only daughters, it is easy to solve. There is no suspense about the property distribution of the only child. If there are two sons or two daughters, the big deal is that the distribution is even, and there may be only one son and one daughter. It is difficult for parents to answer. In reality, more parents tend to distribute their property to their sons. As for daughters, after they get married, they belong to their family. How can they care about their natal family’s property?

There seems to be nothing wrong with thinking this way. Since ancient times, married daughters have poured out water, but with the development of society, girls and boys have become equal, and even daughters are more concerned about their families. During the holidays, they never forget their mother’s family, nothing else. , Take the four seasons clothes and jewelry of parents as an example, most of them are respected by daughters, and when it comes to Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, daughters also take care to buy them, so mothers praise everyone, daughters are filial, and everyone in the family There seems to be a shadow of a daughter inside and out, and even when the parents are sick, the daughter will accompany her parents no matter how busy the family is, but why is it that the parents take it for granted when they pay so much? They have already made a plan in their hearts, no matter how filial their daughters are, they will not have their daughter's share in property.

One son and one daughter, what do parents who give all their property to their sons think?

Counting on the son to retire

In the eyes of most parents (mostly born in the 50s and 60s), the son is the pillar of the family. They think that the filial piety of the daughter is born, and the son is always careless and not so thoughtful in everything, so the filial piety of the daughter is the norm in the eyes of parents. , the son is filial once in a while, but it is so precious. In the eyes of the parents, the son and the daughter are like new clothes and old clothes. Clothes are comfortable and warm, but you can’t take them out every day. From this perspective, even if a daughter is filial every day, when she really gets old, she still has to count on her son. The hope here is not how considerate the son is when his parents are sick, but If the parents are really gone, the family is supported by the son, he is the successor, no matter how good the daughter is, how long can she stay at her mother's house? From this point of view, the son is the root of the family, and of course the property must be given to the son.

Property cannot be left to outsiders

Parents often say a word, no matter how good a daughter is, she will marry someone after all. Her future life depends on what kind of family she marries. Parents believe in marrying chickens and dogs. A daughter is not considered a member of her natal family, so her natal family is also compared by many people. The son’s country is the daughter’s inn. The daughter just comes back to rest. Having a daughter is equivalent to giving it to an outsider, of course not.

Why is the daughter still happy when the property is given to the son?

Filial piety to parents without expecting anything in return

What is strange is that many parents give all their property to their sons, buy houses and cars for their sons, and only a little dowry for their daughters, but their daughters are still happy and filial to their parents without any resentment. Their idea is very simple, as long as the parents are happy, she will be happy. The property is earned by the parents themselves, and the children can’t say anything if they give it to someone or not. It doesn’t matter whether the property is given or not. This may be a kind of extreme filial piety.

Habit is second nature

Looking around, most parents leave their property to their sons, so it is natural for them to get used to it. Daughters all come here like this. Inertial thinking decides that they will not worry about their natal family’s property. Of course, some parents have instilled this kind of Thinking, in the future, everything in the family will belong to the younger brother or elder brother, so if there is no expectation, naturally there will be no resentment.

It's easy not to fight over property

If the property is given to the son, the son must of course bear the main support obligation. In many places, there is such a custom. It is only natural for parents to eat and use their son when they are old. Although the support of parents and children is the same, the situation of property inequality Now, the daughter's support responsibility is lighter, so when the parents are old, this is also a kind of relief.

Of course, there are also some daughters who have not received any property, but are required to have the same support obligations as their sons, and great conflicts broke out in the family. This is actually due to the partiality of their parents. Although filial piety is something that every child should do Yes, but the premise is that they are treated fairly and justly. If you have a son and a daughter, how will you distribute the property? If all the property is given to the son, will the daughter be required to be as filial as the son? Welcome to express your views.