What is the hardest child to carry? The mothers have different opinions, but the final answer is very consistent

I remember that when I was confinement after giving birth, I had to breastfeed every two hours every night. I was often too tired to talk, and my mental state was very bad, so I told my mother when these days would end. ah? My mother said that if I keep going, it will be quicker in a flash. If I persist for two years, it will be fine when the baby is older.

But when the baby is two years old, nothing seems to have changed. Many mothers also have such an experience. They always feel that their children are cute no matter what they do before the age of two. It is very difficult to take care of the baby, and if you reason with him, he will not listen.

I believe that every mother has her own right to speak and have different ideas about how old the baby is the most difficult to take care of. At each stage, they will face different problems. Many mothers have the experience of being angry with their babies!

So which stage of the baby is the most difficult to carry? If mothers recall, do they feel that they were too young in the past.

First, let's talk about when I was born

From the moment the baby was born, the problem came. Neonatal jaundice and neonatal pneumonia were the most common. After waiting anxiously, the baby was finally welcomed home. I originally thought that the happy life of a family of three would be here we go.

But what followed was breastfeeding day and night, changing diapers, and Mommy was always wearing pajamas, with a chicken coop head and big dark circles under her eyes. It was hard to wait until the baby fell asleep and take a picture for posting. In a circle of friends, as a result, my friends liked them one after another, and they all commented "the baby is so cute", "the baby looks like you", etc., but I ignored my accompanying text: the baby finally fell asleep, and the old mother who stayed up late also You can close your eyes.

The baby is half a year old, and finally he has a certain pattern of eating and drinking

Finally, the lives of the mothers have a certain pattern, and it can be said that they are on the right track, but then something terrible is about to happen. At the beginning of this period, the baby began to learn to roll over. In the past, the baby could be placed in the middle of the bed, and then he could go out to the toilet or drink water. Holding the baby while going to the toilet.

At this time, the baby sleeps more at ease during the day, and can do what he wants to do by himself, right? No, it's too easy for you to think. Seeing that the baby has been asleep for half an hour, it is estimated that he is asleep. When your butt is just lifted from the bed, the baby starts to cry. I really suspect that they have radar on them.

At this time, the vast majority of babies have also started to add complementary foods, and mothers are always frightened, fearing that the baby is allergic, fearing that the baby will not like to eat, or that the food is too large to be choked, not only afraid of malnutrition, but also afraid of digestion bad. In short, after adding complementary food, mothers worry more, and it also adds a lot of "fun", that is, every time the baby finishes stinking, he always starts to study the lump, how is the color, How about the shape and so on.

It's finally the baby's one year old

During this period, the baby can walk freely, can understand what many adults say, and has learned more skills, such as being able to eat well and fall asleep by himself.

But there are also many problems that follow, because they can walk, which is very novel for babies, full of energy every day, and they have to walk around all the time, many mothers need to watch, So it will appear that even if his old waist is about to be folded, he still has to support the baby to see the outside world step by step.

When coaxing the baby to sleep, you are about to fall asleep, and the baby is still chatting non-stop. At this time, the language is gradually enriched, and you will always say a word, you have to respond patiently, you can't dampen their enthusiasm.

After a lot of hardships, it finally came when the baby was two years old

This is a qualitative leap, I can talk a lot, there is no problem with basic communication, and I know I have to go to the toilet. But what followed was "terrible two years old", the baby was about to enter the first rebellious period, and the mantra became "I don't" and "don't".

The baby is full of curiosity about the world and has become more active. Always when the mother is not paying attention, it will cause damage. If the mother is angry, the baby will deliberately find reasons or divert attention.

It seems like just yesterday, this little baby who can jump and jump in front of me is still a good baby in the swaddle. He can't do anything except eat or sleep, but in a blink of an eye, he is now a big child, and he will use his only vocabulary to talk to him. You talk back and have to admit that time flies so fast!

I can finally send my baby to kindergarten

The old mothers finally cheered: I can finally rest now! However, before the rest, the baby began to develop separation anxiety. The first few days of kindergarten were always crying, and even this situation would last for a month. Sending to kindergarten every morning was like parting from life and death.

No longer dare to throw the waste at home, and even pick up the leaves on the roadside, just like a scavenger, in order to be able to make the handicrafts required by the kindergarten teacher.

Another qualitative leap, I finally entered primary school

Many mothers feel that they have finally grown up and started primary school life, so they can sit back and relax, right? After all, you don't have to help yourself when you eat, you don't have to worry about safety when you go out to play, and you can help with housework from time to time. But before you start to have such a sweet dream, you will face a cruel test - tutoring homework.

As a result, there will be a scene of "a mother who does not do homework is kind and filial to her son, but when she does homework, chickens fly like dogs." In short, mothers seem to have become shrew. The loud voice of mothers. After yelling, I will regret it, after all, I am afraid that it will cast a shadow on the child's psychology, but when I see the scene of the child doing homework, I can't help it.

After seeing these periods, I believe many mothers know it, there is no good time to bring, but each period has problems in each period. As soon as the baby is born, it means you have to worry about it for the rest of your life, which is motherhood.

Moms, what age do you think is the hardest to bring your baby? What unforgettable experiences have you had at this stage?