What age is the hardest to bring a baby? The mothers have different opinions, but the final answer is very consistent

I remember that when I was in confinement after giving birth, I had to feed every two hours every night. I was often too tired to talk, and my mental state was very bad, so I told my mother when this day would end ah? My mother said that if I continue to endure it, it will be fast in a flash. If I persist for two years, the baby will be fine when he grows up.

But when the baby is two years old, it seems that nothing has changed. Many mothers also have such an experience. They always feel that children are cute no matter what they do before they are two years old. As the baby grows up, the baby can not only walk but also talk a lot. It is very difficult to bring up the baby, and he will not listen to what is reasonable to him.

I believe that every mother has her own right to speak about the most difficult age of her baby, and she has different ideas. At each stage, you will face different problems. Many mothers have the experience of being angry and crying by their babies!

So which stage of the baby is the most difficult to take care of? If the treasure mothers recall, do they feel that they were too young in the past.

First of all, let's talk about the time when I was born

From the time the baby was born, the problem started. Neonatal jaundice and neonatal pneumonia are the most common. After waiting anxiously, the baby finally came home. I originally thought that the happy life of a family of three would be here we go.

But what followed was breastfeeding and changing diapers day and night, and Bao Ma was always in pajamas, with chicken nests and big dark circles, and finally waited until the baby fell asleep, took a photo and posted I created a circle of friends, and as a result, friends liked it one after another, and all commented "the baby is so cute", "the baby looks like you", etc., but they ignored my accompanying text: the baby finally fell asleep, and the old mother who stayed up late also You can close your eyes now.

The baby is half a year old, and finally has a certain pattern of eating and drinking

Finally, the life of the mothers has a certain pattern, and it can be said that they are on the right track, but then something terrible is about to happen. From this period, the baby began to learn to turn over. Before, he could put the baby in the middle of the bed, and then he could go to the toilet or drink water by himself, but now it is completely impossible. He may roll over by accident, so we can only While holding the baby, while going to the toilet.

At this time, the baby will sleep more comfortably during the day, and he can do something he wants to do, right? No, what you think is too simple. Seeing that the baby has been asleep for half an hour, it is estimated that they are fast asleep, and when your buttocks just lift up from the bed, the baby starts to cry, I really doubt that they have radar installed on them.

At this time, the vast majority of babies have also started to add complementary food. Mothers will always be frightened, afraid that the baby will be allergic, and afraid that the baby will not like to eat, or the food is too big for fear of choking, both for malnutrition and for digestion. bad. In short, after adding complementary food, mothers worry more and add a lot of "fun", that is, every time the baby finishes pulling the stinky, he will always start to study the lump, what is the color, What is the shape and so on.

Finally ushered in the baby's one-year-old

During this period, the baby can walk freely, can understand many words spoken by adults, and has learned more skills, such as being able to eat well and fall asleep by himself. I always feel that I can be liberated at this time?

But there are also many problems that come with it, because it is very novel for the baby to be able to walk, and he is full of energy every day, and he has to walk around all the time. In many cases, mothers need to watch, So even if my old waist is about to break, I still have to help my baby to see the outside world step by step.

When coaxing the baby to sleep, I was about to fall asleep, and the baby was still chattering non-stop. At this time, the language gradually became richer, and he would always say a word, and you had to respond patiently. discourage their enthusiasm.

After many hardships, it finally came to the time when the baby was two years old

This is a qualitative leap, I can talk a lot, I have no problem with basic communication, and I know I have to go to the bathroom. But what followed was the "terrible two-year-old", the baby was about to enter the first rebellious period, and the mantra became "I don't" and "Don't".

The baby is full of curiosity about the world and becomes more active. Always sabotage when the mother is not paying attention, if the mother is angry, the baby will deliberately find reasons or divert attention.

As if it was just yesterday, the little baby who can jump and jump in front of me is still a good baby in the swaddle, who can do nothing but eat and sleep, but in a blink of an eye, he is now a big child, and he can use his only vocabulary to talk You talk back and have to admit, time flies so fast!

I can finally send my baby to kindergarten.

The old mothers finally cheered: Now I can finally have a good rest! But before the rest, the baby began to have separation anxiety disorder. He was always crying and crying in the first few days of going to kindergarten, and this situation would last for a month. Sending him to kindergarten every morning was like parting from life and death.

I no longer dare to throw away the waste at home, and even pick up the leaves on the side of the road, just like a scavenger, just to be able to make the handmade works required by the kindergarten teacher.

It was another qualitative leap, and I finally went to elementary school

Many mothers feel that their children have finally grown up and started primary school life, so they can sit back and relax, right? After all, I don’t need to help myself to eat, and I don’t have to worry about safety when I go out to play, and I can help with housework from time to time. But before you start dreaming of such a sweet dream, you will face a cruel test—homework tutoring.

As a result, there will be a scene of "the mother who does not do homework is kind and filial, and when she does homework, the chickens fly away". In short, mothers seem to have become shrews. When it is time to do homework, they can always hear Loud voices of mothers. After yelling, I will regret it. After all, I am afraid that it will cast a shadow on the child's psychology, but seeing the scene of the baby doing homework, I can't help it.

After seeing these periods, I believe many mothers know it. There is no time to bring it, but every period has its own problems. As long as the baby is born, it means that you have to worry about it for the rest of your life. This is being a mother.

Moms, what age do you think is the most difficult to take care of your baby? What memorable experiences did you have at this stage?