The first child is a son. Parents want a daughter but don't want to have a second child. Son: Just be happy

I went out to play with my child today, and saw a mother pushing a cute baby. The daughter ran over as soon as she saw it, calling her little sister. I also praised it, your daughter is so beautiful, who knew this mother Haha laughed, my family is a son, pure man. My daughter is a little strange, auntie, why is he wearing a small skirt? Bao Ma squatted down and told her daughter that my aunt wanted a daughter, but she gave birth to a little boy, so she dressed him up as a little girl to enjoy her daughter's addiction. Do you want to go home with your aunt?

This treasure mother was obviously joking. Later, she found out during the conversation that she and her husband prefer daughters. During pregnancy, several people said that she was carrying a girl. The couple was so happy that they bought a lot of baby girl clothes and stocked up , who knew that they were born a boy, both of them were very disappointed, but don't waste clothes. Fortunately, the babies are all the same, so it is fun to wear girls' clothes for their sons. She also said that there are many such parents now. Well, if you want a daughter but don't want to have a second child, you can only "work hard" on your son.

Is this really true? Let's talk about the picture:

Look at this baby, we are a veritable boy baby, what does a full head of pigtails mean? The key is that the doll is still in his hand, and the quilt at the back is also pink. How much parents like girls.

I said, Mom and Dad, don't think I'm a little boy, I can wear a skirt and be unscrupulous. Do you know? Alas, I know that resistance is useless, as long as you are happy.

The baby boy had two pigtails upside down, and his mother was excited to take pictures, but he had a loveless expression on his face. Just because I was good-looking, he was disguised as a man by a woman?

In order to dress up her son, my mother really made a lot of money. What style is this? Romance or abstinence? No wonder husbands say, my wife is crazy again, how much do you want a daughter?

How many mothers have ever wanted to dress up their daughters this way? It's a pity that a boy was born, but it's not against harmony to dress like this.

This is a well-deserved king of kings. When the baby came out with long flowing hair, I thought it was a little girl. I was just about to brag, but I saw the child smashed his hair down in a hurry. Uh, boy Yay baby! Why do mothers always want to raise boys as girls? Nothing more than two funny reasons:

handsome boy

There are many baby boys who are born with beautiful features and are often misunderstood as girls, which stimulates the daughter complex in the mother's body, so she always wants to dress her son as a daughter, so as to have the feeling of having both children, but as the boy grows When he was older, he gradually began to resist. Most mothers had to give up, but some boys were more obedient to their mother's bad tastes, and they could do whatever they liked.

Wanting a daughter but having a son, but not wanting to have a second child

Nowadays, there are more and more daughter slaves, and many parents want their daughters, but what if they give birth to their sons for the first time? Most people would persuade them to have a second child as soon as possible, maybe a daughter will come, but having a second child is easier said than done, it not only requires a lot of material and financial resources, but also requires a lot of manpower. Many parents refuse to think about it and can only dress up their sons. My daughter is addicted, hahaha.

Does raising a boy as a girl from an early age have any effect on the boy's growth?

Many parents like to dress up little boys, just for fun, or the big treasure in the family is a daughter. In order to save clothes, they let their son wear girls' clothes. If the child is still young, this kind of dress does not matter, but it is worth noting that the boy's toys must be Don't confuse it. For example, boys like cars, water guns, etc., and do not force dolls and toys for boys. This is not conducive to cultivating boys' masculine personality. In words and deeds, there should be no feminine hints, such as you are so beautiful, wearing a skirt really Good-looking, it can make boys misunderstand their gender.

When the child is 3-5 years old, no matter how much parents like their daughter, they should not dress up boys like this. This period is a critical period for the child's gender identity. If you continue to raise children in this way, "gender identity disorder" will occur, such as 15-year-old children. Lele suddenly became introverted, and his academic performance also declined. The family searched for various reasons, but none of them were symptomatic. Finally, after consulting a psychiatrist, Lele said that he felt that he was a girl, and he did not want to be a boy.

The psychiatrist said that this is related to the child's family education and behavior habits since childhood. It turned out that Lele's mother always wanted a daughter, but had no choice but to give birth to a son, so she dressed Lele as a girl, and her neighbors knew that, And it's not surprising, sometimes my mother brings my cousin's clothes for him to wear, and Lele picks up some neutral clothes to wear. I thought it was nothing, but who knows, it delays the child and makes him start to confuse his gender. , followed by psychological problems.

Boys are inherently different from girls, and there are essential differences in behaviors, personalities, and hobbies. Therefore, it is very important to help children distinguish between genders, such as toys, games and clothes, as well as the way of speaking. There are also many parents who raise girls as boys, and as a result raise a "tomboy". Their daughters never wear skirts and only like to wear men's clothes. This is also a wrong parenting method and requires special attention from parents.