Not as good as my mother's stew! An Anhui woman confinement child was rejected by her mother-in-law: what ginger?

The most difficult thing in this world is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

No matter how high her IQ is, no matter how influential she is outside, she will run into trouble when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

These troubles have nothing to do with personality, but the way of life of the two, and even the difference in values, which are normal things.

An Anhui woman, married from Zhejiang, has to be taken care of by her mother-in-law after giving birth. However, due to the difference in lifestyle, there will be big differences in some trivial matters.

The chicken soup that my mother-in-law boiled was the same in her eyes.

The most delicious food in people's hearts is obtained from their mothers.

Even after many years, it will be missed, and it may be more intense for those women who are married far away, especially when she is most vulnerable.

The material for this article comes from the confinement experience of a married woman.

It is not difficult for her to get married. Although her parents are reluctant, she has decided that she will leave Anhui and come to Zhejiang without hesitation.

She always felt that it was because of the distance. After she gave birth, she realized that it was not because of the distance, but because of her way of life.

She used to live with her husband, they were very familiar with each other, and they ate the same things, so she didn't feel any discomfort.

Until she got married, gave birth to a child, and took care of her, she was used to eating, but now, she began to worry.

The most typical example is to nourish the body after giving birth. Her mother-in-law thinks that chicken soup is the best tonic for nourishing the body, so she will buy a chicken and stew it every time. Various seasonings.

Originally, it was nothing, but in the eyes of a woman, it was difficult for her to accept it, because she thought from a young age that to keep the original flavor and not put anything, otherwise the taste of chicken would be lost.

For this reason, she repeatedly told her mother-in-law not to put ginger, star anise and other things, but she didn't know if her mother-in-law didn't care, or she was used to it, but she couldn't change it.

In the end, the woman couldn't take it anymore. Once, her mother-in-law brought her a bowl of chicken soup, saying that she had a bad appetite and was not as good as her mother's cooking.

Even chicken soup can cause conflict, some people think it's a trivial matter, some people think it's a matter of attitude.

Some netizens said that in this case, it is really puzzling to find out the problem. If you eat it later, it is best to eat it raw, otherwise it will lose its original taste.

Others say that between many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sometimes it is not necessarily the mother-in-law that has the problem, but the daughter-in-law also has the problem.

Some people also said that since the daughter-in-law came on her own initiative, she should pay more attention. If she insists on doing her own thing in the future, it will not be a technical problem, but an attitude problem.

For ordinary friends, the most important reason for wanting to get along in a long-term and healthy way is to put yourself in their shoes.

This is the most important point between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

It is normal for two women who have never known each other to quarrel for the same man to live together, but if there is a conflict, it is very important.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to think from each other's perspective.

From an outsider's point of view, it's just a trivial matter. But for a woman, this may be the most helpless part of her life, because her communication with her mother-in-law is futile.

Next time, she can deliver the message through her husband, which will do more with less, instead of making her emotions more intense.