Let go of triplets, will you still fight for triplets? Look at the answers of the mothers, realistic and sad

After the second-child policy was liberalized, many families have joined the army of second-children. There is a mother next to her who has a daughter for the first time and is about to have a second child soon. If you let go, you won't be able to regenerate yourself, just wanting to train these two children well is enough. But some people say that it's not because you gave birth to a son. If it is two daughters, you will definitely fight for a third child. For this question, several mothers were asked, and their answers were different.

Xiaoxiao's mother: The first child was a daughter, so after her body recovered, she hurriedly prepared to conceive a second child, thinking that the second child could have a son, so that it would be "good". But it is God's will, and the second child is a daughter, so this has become a knot in my heart. In fact, sons and daughters are all the same, but because they have this wish in their hearts, if it is not fulfilled, they feel regretful in their hearts.

Mother Yiyi: I have already given birth to two daughters, but my mother-in-law has been urging me to have a third child, and I want a boy, but now it is too difficult to raise a child, it is easy to give birth to a child, and it is not easy to raise a child. The two children have already made life difficult for the family. If there is another son, it will be difficult for him to marry a wife in the future. The mother-in-law only knows to remind us, without considering our actual situation at all.

Wenwen's mother: There are already two daughters in the family, so I don't want a third child, because I want my mother's home to be my daughter's home forever. If there is a son and daughter-in-law, then the daughter will become a guest at home after marriage, and an outsider in the husband's house. I don't want my daughter to fall into such an embarrassing situation! I feel sorry for my daughter, so I will not leave her without a place to rely on.

After reading the answers of these three mothers, only Xiaoxiao's mother really wants a boy, and the other two mothers don't want to fight for a third child. It is true that it is not easy to raise a child now, unlike in the past, as long as there is enough food and not cold. In the past, when there were two daughters in the family, there were still many mothers who wanted to have a third child. But even if there is only one son now, more and more mothers are unwilling to have a second child, let alone a third child.

See how other netizen mothers answered this question?

123456 Tangerine: All our colleagues in Shanghai have very good family conditions. Everyone has several apartments and a lot of money. Everyone only has one child, regardless of gender. Hygienic grocery shopping and cooking, the money can only be a minimum income of more than 2,000, and everyone has to have several children. I can't understand or imagine. How can I live like this?

Sky wm: I have two daughters, and it’s a pity that I didn’t have a son to be honest. It has little to do with patriarchy (if patriarchal, I won’t have a second daughter), the main thing is that I want what I don’t have, and I have more sons I also want my daughter to be the same, it doesn't matter right or wrong, if conditions permit, I will have three children, if not, I won't have one!

Netizen la la la la said: two girls, but still want another one, no matter what others say patriarchal, it doesn’t matter what you say, you can do it yourself, others are superfluous, why do you have the same views as others , I just thought what happened to both children and daughters? Why do you care what other people think if you don't break the law or commit a crime?

Moms, if it were you, would you choose to have three children?