Let go of the third child, will you still fight for the third child? Look at the answers of the mothers, it is realistic and sad

After the release of the second-child policy, many families joined the army of second-children one after another. There is a treasured mother who is a daughter with her first child, and will soon have a second child. If she wishes, she will be a son, saying that this life is complete, even if all three have If you let go, you won't be born again, it's enough to just nurture these two children. But some people say that it's not because you gave birth to one of your sons. If it were two daughters, you would definitely still have three children. For this question, I asked several mothers, and their answers were different.

Xiaoxiao's mother: The first child was a daughter, so after the body recovered, I hurriedly prepared for the second child, hoping that the second child would have a son, so that the word "good" could be made up. But the will of God is hard to resist, and the second child is a daughter, so this has become a knot in my heart. In fact, both sons and daughters are the same, but because I have this wish in my heart and it is not fulfilled, I feel regretful in my heart.

Yiyi Mom: I have already given birth to two daughters, but my mother-in-law has been urging me to have three children and want a boy, but it is too difficult to raise children now, and it is not easy to have children and raise children. The two children have already made life difficult for the family. If you want another son, it will be difficult to marry him in the future. My mother-in-law only knows how to urge, and does not consider our actual situation at all.

Wenwen's mother: There are already two daughters in the family, so I don't want a third child, because I want my mother's family to be my daughter's home forever. If there is a son and daughter-in-law, then the daughter will become a guest at home after marriage. She is an outsider in her husband's house, and she does not want her daughter to fall into such an embarrassing situation! I feel bad for my daughter, so I won't leave her without a place to lean on.

After reading the answers of the three mothers, only Xiaoxiao's mother really wanted a boy, and the other two mothers didn't want to fight for a third child. It is indeed not easy to raise a child now, unlike in the past, as long as you have enough food and don't freeze. If it was put in the past, even with two daughters at home, there are still many mothers who still want to have a third child. But even if there is only one son now, more and more mothers are reluctant to have a second child, let alone a third child.

See how other netizens have responded to this question?

123456 Orange: All of our colleagues in Shanghai have very good family conditions. Everyone has several suites and a lot of money. Everyone has only one child, whether male or female, or DINK. On the contrary, the work of these colleagues from other places is cleaning. To buy food and cook hygienically, the minimum income can only be more than 2,000 yuan. Everyone has to give birth to several children. It is incomprehensible and unimaginable.

Sky wm: I have two daughters. To be honest, it is a pity not to have a son. It has little to do with the preference for sons and daughters (if sons are more important than daughters, I won’t have two daughters), mainly because I want what I don’t have, and I have too many sons. I also want my daughter to be the same. There is no right or wrong. If the conditions allow, I will have three children, and if it is not allowed, I will not give birth!

Netizen la la la talk: Two daughters, but still want another , I just thought what happened to the children? Why don't you care what other people think if you don't break the law and don't commit crimes!

Moms, if it were you, would you choose to pursue a third child?