Kindergarten has become a 'show-off scene', which is obviously the opening ceremony, but it has become a red carpet catwalk

Parents nowadays hope that their children can win at the starting line, so they buy all kinds of delicious, fun, and easy-to-use things for their children. Some parents even only buy expensive ones, not the right ones.

Especially when the child reaches the age of kindergarten, parents are even more crazy about it.

Because, when children come to kindergarten, they will come into contact with all kinds of children. Parents will dress their children in good clothes in order to make their children look good. It should be a place for children to learn, but it has become a "show off wealth scene".

Kindergartens become "show off wealth scene"

Today's kindergartens are different from those in the past. They pay more attention to the cultivation of parent-child relationship, so that parents and children can have a deeper understanding.

However, some kindergartens have good intentions, but in the end they are misunderstood by parents.

Previously, a video of the opening ceremony of a kindergarten became popular on the Internet. This time the opening ceremony was not held in a kindergarten, but in a hotel. The scale was even more grand, and even a red carpet was arranged.

It is such a grand opening ceremony that parents pay special attention to. In order not to lose to other families, the parents attend in full dress. The mother wears a dress, the father wears a suit, and the child is a small wedding dress or a suit. If you don’t know what it is For the opening ceremony of the kindergarten, I thought it was the company's awards show!

However, the original intention of the kindergarten was to allow parents and children to get to know each other through walking the red carpet, but unexpectedly, it was regarded as a "scene of showing off wealth" by parents. Even netizens said: It is obviously the opening ceremony. It turned into a red carpet catwalk.

In fact, this kind of psychology of parents is also understandable, hoping to make others envy their children by wearing expensive clothes.

Why are parents like this now?

Most parents have not noticed the changes in their hearts, and use their children to compare or show off their wealth by reason of not wanting their children to be worse than others.

The reason why parents become like this is actually not their children, but themselves.

Parents always use the phrase "for the children's good" as a shield, but in fact it affects the children virtually, and even hurts the children. Therefore, parents should know that it is not to wear expensive clothes for their children, but to use more expensive clothes. things, you won’t lose at the starting line, and when the parent’s behavior appears, the child has already lost.

So is it good for the kindergarten to hold the opening ceremony for the children?

I believe that most kindergartens have good intentions, but some parents have misunderstood the meaning.

The opening ceremony is mainly to increase the relationship between parents and children, but also to get to know other children in advance and promote their relationship.

In addition, the opening ceremony is also a very commemorative event. Kindergarten is the beginning of children's group life. It is a very meaningful thing for children to feel the fun of being together with children in advance.

However, the opening ceremony does not need to be too grand. After all, the opening ceremony is just a ceremony. If it is held too grandly, it will have a bad influence on the children.

Generally speaking, the intention of holding the opening ceremony in kindergartens is very good, but some parents regard the opening ceremony as a stage to "show off their wealth". As a result, the opening ceremony of many kindergartens has "changed", so some parents resist Such behavior.

YOYO's heartfelt words

I like to let children participate in the opening ceremony or graduation ceremony. No matter which one is a kind of opening or a kind of ending, parents should know that kindergartens and schools belong to the world of children. We parents should not put the "copper smell" "Bring here.

What parents need to do is to silently be the backing of their children, to help their children when they need it, and to help their children when they have difficulties. This is the most correct way.

Therefore, I also implore parents to return pure places such as kindergartens and schools to their children, and stop using children to make comparisons.