Kindergarten became a 'showing off wealth', it was obviously the opening ceremony, but it became a red carpet catwalk

Parents now hope that their children can win at the starting line, so they buy all kinds of delicious, fun, easy-to-use food for their children, and even some parents only buy expensive ones, not the right ones.

Especially when children reach kindergarten age, parents are even more crazy about it.

Because, when children come to kindergarten, they will come into contact with all kinds of children. In order to make their children look good, parents will dress their children in good clothes. It should be a place for children to learn, and it has become a "show-off scene".

Kindergarten becomes a "show-off scene"

Today's kindergartens are different from before, and they pay more attention to the cultivation of parent-child relationship, so that parents and children can have a deeper understanding.

However, some kindergartens have good intentions but end up being misunderstood by parents.

Previously, a video of the opening ceremony of a kindergarten became popular on the Internet. This time, the opening ceremony was not in a kindergarten, but in a hotel. The scale was very grand, and a red carpet was even arranged.

It is this kind of grand opening ceremony that makes parents pay special attention. In order not to lose to other people's homes, parents are dressed up to attend, the mother is wearing a dress, the father is wearing a suit, and the child is a small wedding dress or a suit. If the kindergarten opening ceremony, I thought it was the company's awards party!

However, the original intention of the kindergarten was to let parents and children get to know each other through the red carpet, but it was unexpectedly regarded by parents as a "show-off scene". Even netizens said: It is obviously the opening ceremony. It turned into a red carpet catwalk.

In fact, this kind of psychology of parents is also understandable, hoping to make others envy their children by wearing expensive clothes.

Why are parents like this now?

Most parents do not find their inner changes, and use their children to compare or show off their wealth because they don't want their children to be worse than others.

The reason why parents become like this is not in their children, but in themselves.

Parents always use the phrase "good for their children" as a shield, but in fact it affects their children invisibly, and even hurts them. Therefore, parents should know that it is not for children to wear expensive clothes, but to use more expensive clothes. Things, they will not lose at the starting line, and when parents make such a move, in fact, the child has already lost.

So is it good for kindergartens to hold opening ceremonies for children?

I believe that most kindergartens have good intentions, but some parents have misunderstood the meaning.

The opening ceremony is mainly to increase the relationship between parents and children, but also to get to know other children in advance to promote feelings.

In addition, the opening ceremony is also a very memorable event. Kindergarten is the beginning of children's group life. It can let children feel the fun of children together in advance, which is a very meaningful thing.

However, the opening ceremony does not need to be too grand. After all, the opening ceremony is just a ceremony. If it is held too grandly, it will have a bad influence on the children.

On the whole, the intention of the kindergarten to hold the opening ceremony is very good, but some parents regard the opening ceremony as a stage to "show off their wealth". As a result, the opening ceremony of many kindergartens has now "changed taste", so there will be parents' resistance. Such behavior.

YOYO's heart

I like to let my children participate in the opening ceremony or graduation ceremony. No matter which one is a kind of opening or a kind of ending, parents should know that kindergartens and schools belong to children's world, and our parents should not put "copper smell" "Bring it here.

What parents need to do is to be the backing of their children silently, to help their children when they are in need, and to help them when their children are in difficulty. This is the most correct way.

Therefore, I also urge all parents to return the pure places such as kindergartens and schools to their children, and stop using their children to compare.