Jiangsu groom slammed the door because the bride changed her mind to get out of the car and slammed the door. Bride: My best friend asked me to increase the price
People are inseparable from friends in life. With friends, there are many possibilities in life, but making friends is also a knowledge. If you meet good friends, your life will be full of fun, and friends will help you when you encounter difficulties. , but if this friend is not reliable, then maybe one or two words from him can make your life into a mess.
A woman in Suzhou, Jiangsu listened to her best friend's words on the wedding day, and it was precisely such a word that the groom slammed the door on her. What was the situation?
The Suzhou woman and her boyfriend have been dating for some time. Under the strong suggestion of the parents of both parties, the two held a wedding.
On the day of the wedding, the bride calls her best friend over as her bridesmaid.
On the way to the hotel, the bride's best friend and the bride were sitting in the same car. Everything was arranged properly. Everyone expected the wedding to go smoothly. Talking about the issue of getting off the red envelope,
Originally, the bride and groom negotiated, and the red envelope for getting off the car was 30,000 yuan.
But my best friend said that the number of 30,000 is not very good. On their side, they all start with 6 and 8, and the higher the red envelope, the more sincerity the groom can show. If the bride's red envelope is too small, then the She will be looked down upon by her parents-in-law, and her life at her husband's house will not be easy, so her best friend suggested that the bride raise the red envelope a little higher. It was directly raised to 88,000,
The bride felt that what her best friend said was reasonable, and she was her friend, so she made such a suggestion for her own good.
So when the car arrived at the hotel, the groom came to the car to pick up the bride, and the bride asked for a red envelope of 88,000. The groom was immediately stunned when he heard this.
He felt that the 30,000 yuan red envelope that he had promised before had already been prepared, and now he suddenly raised such a high demand, what should he do?
And even if he agreed, the 88,000 yuan red envelope could not be collected in a short time. He discussed it with the bride for a long time, but the bride listened to her best friend's words and insisted on doing her own thing, claiming that she would not get out of the car unless she gave 88,000 yuan.
The groom saw the bride's unreasonable trouble and couldn't coax for a long time, so he was very angry and slammed away. After seeing the groom slammed away, the bride's face changed obviously, and she felt very sad. Maybe it was in the bride's heart. I felt that the groom didn't value her, and he didn't even want to give her 88,000 red envelopes.
later. Parents and relatives and friends of both parties came to reconcile the atmosphere of the two, and it was difficult to continue the wedding.
Author's opinion:
After seeing this incident, I feel that I can't understand the bride's thoughts. She and the groom have been in love for so long. If the two people's relationship is not good, they will not reach the stage of marriage. ,
All the previous processes have been discussed, including the amount of red envelopes for getting off the car. Both parties have prepared this matter very carefully, but just because of a word or two from the best friend, the bride has changed her mind. ,
It can be seen that this bride is more easily influenced by others. Moreover, this best friend is helping the bride to raise her own status on the surface, but in fact, she is making a stumbling block for the bride's wedding.
The amount of the red envelope is just a symbolic meaning and has nothing to do with a happy and happy life after marriage.
Through this incident, we can also see that it is very important to make a good friend in life, and for some suggestions and opinions of friends, we must have our own judgment, and we can't follow others' opinions, or our life will be affected by others. The impact is a mess, and in the end, the victim is still himself.