Case｜A bride in Jiangsu wanted 88,000 to get off the car after listening to her best friend, but the groom slammed the door and left

Couples must have thought a lot about marriage. After all, it is not just a matter of two people, not only a matter of love. You can only get a marriage certificate on a whim and cannot get married. In the eyes of many people, marriage is the most important thing. important step.

In fact, since ancient times, "marriage" has been a particularly important thing. The ancients attached great importance to the marriage of the Ming media, and the rich married a large sedan chair. It proves that men's families attach more importance to women.

But to this day, the custom of sincerity as a dowry should be abandoned and replaced by money as a gift. The betrothal gift is the fee paid by the parents of both parties to hold the wedding ceremony for the child after marriage. It represents the parents' expectation for the child's future and the expectation of the child's future life. This is what we call the dowry. Since everyone has love, but not all families can send high betrothal gifts, the custom of betrothal gifts and dowry is retained, mainly because it is a happy money, to express the congratulations of both parents to the newlyweds, if the daughter marriage is used as a way to ask for money, then the meaning of marriage changes.

Article 102 of the Civil Code clearly stipulates that buying and selling marriages, buying and selling marriages, and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited, and the acquisition of property through marriage is prohibited. This shows that it is not right and illegal for some people to ask for sky-high dowry. But in real life, in order to pursue their own happiness, many young people will obtain high betrothal gifts through various channels, and these high betrothal gifts are often used by some criminals to defraud the other party of money. I don't know how many couples will fail the bride price when it comes to marriage in 2022. The wedding in Jiangsu in 2022 has also turned into a farce about money.

On January 8, Xiaoli (pseudonym) and Awei (pseudonym) finally bravely entered the next stage of their lives in front of relatives and friends. Before they got married, they didn't realize how much change this step would bring. On their wedding day, their wedding was arranged very grandly. In addition to the flower basket, there is also a huge balloon at the wedding site. It is said that today is the most beautiful day in the bride's life, and Xiao Li's feeling on this day is really magical.

Looking back on the love story between her and Ah Wei, in fact, she is no different from others. She works in Suzhou, and Ah Wei also works in Suzhou. In an accidental encounter, the two met. They are all college students from Shanghai, and they are all very talented girls. After being together, they quickly established a relationship, and soon got married and had children. How did their love begin? Xiaoli is definitely a beautiful woman, so it's not too much to say that Awei fell in love at first sight. After some intense pursuit, Xiaoli is still with him.

After all, they're old enough to talk about marriage, so when they feel like their relationship has settled down, they both meet with their parents.

There are pros and cons to living together. On the plus side, you can support each other without the need to be apart and apart, and you can learn about each other's way of life by living together. The downside is that living together can lead to accidents if you don't handle it well. Pregnancy is the most common type of accident for couples living together.

Xiao Li got pregnant while living together, but they still planned to get married, so they told their parents about it. Parents were very anxious after hearing about it: their daughter has been born for more than four months, and there is no child yet! They worry that this may have a bad effect on the child. However, they can't make their daughters like themselves. How to do? How to do? Xiao Li's family frowned when they heard the news, not knowing what to say to their daughter; Ah Wei's family was very happy to hear it, but they all knew that they were going to get married soon.

For Ah Wei's parents, Xiao Li is pregnant, everyone is a member of the family, the betrothal gift is just a form, there is no need to give so much.

The sky-high price of 30,000 yuan is not a lot, even lower than the average person. The more Xiao Li's family wants to get angry, but her daughter is pregnant and her belly is getting bigger every day.

After that, Xiaoli and Awei went to the wedding scene. They are high school seniors in a school. Due to the poor economic conditions at home, they decided to go out to work to earn money for their studies. However, it is not easy for them to find a job. A few days before the wedding, Xiao Li was very nervous, and her best friend felt that the $30,000 dowry was too insignificant, so she helped her figure out a way to tell her when she was "dismounting" Awei's family.

On the wedding day, Ah Wei dressed up beautifully and waited for Xiao Li with a bouquet in her hand, ready to send her home, "Disembark" came: Xiao Li wanted a gift of 88,000 yuan to get off the bus, otherwise she If you can't get out of the car, you can't get married.

At first, Wei thought she was joking and smiled at the situation, but Liv was too serious to be joking. Ah Wei had to coax him and say, "From now on, the money I make is not yours!" After that, he stopped the car and continued to drive away. But when she got to the parking lot, Xiaoli realized that there was someone waiting in front of her. Ah Wei quickly stepped forward to say hello: "Hello! May I ask what service do you need? It turns out that Liv still can't get out of the car.

As we all know, wedding banquets, marriage receptions, wedding banquets and other links are strictly defined as auspicious times. Xiaoli doesn't want to get off the bus, and all the following procedures cannot be carried out. Awei's mood is getting more and more boring, so she will lie on the ground directly. The door said: "Don't pull it down!" Then he turned and left. Xiao Li was very angry when she saw it, and shouted loudly: "Didn't I want to break up with you? Why are you so rude?!" Ah Wei wanted to say something but didn't say anything. Leave Xiaoli in the car.

Liv didn't expect things to get to this point, she sat in the car with a look of consternation and tears streaming down her face, the two had come to a point where even if the wedding could go on, the rest of their lives would only be filled with fear.