The primary school student's 'Lonely' composition scored 100 points, the words are full of sadness, and the teacher's message is very warm
In our student days, we will all encounter various questions, including multiple-choice questions, fill-in-the-blank questions, true-false questions, etc. Of course, in addition to these questions, there are also essay questions that allow students to express themselves. When teachers teach children to write essays, they often say the phrase "use your true emotions to create". Some children can do this well, while others can't.
The primary school student's "Lonely" composition scored 100 points, the words are full of sadness, and the teacher's message is very warm
There was a second grader of elementary school whose composition aroused discussion on the Internet. The teacher gave him the title of "loneliness", and the content of his composition was roughly like this: "My parents divorced, and then my father remarried a daughter, They gave birth to a younger brother. Before the Chinese New Year, my father said that our family would go on a trip together, and I was very happy, but when I packed up, my father only took the woman and the younger brother, not me.” This essay There is no word "loneliness" in the full text, but netizens feel that the child's words are full of sadness.
For this composition, the teacher not only gave a perfect score of 100, but also left a warm message below: May you be warm in three winters, and may you not be cold in spring, come on! In the future, if you want, you can come to the teacher's house for Chinese New Year. Netizens read the article and said that the child is too distressing.
How does divorce affect the children?
- The heart will become more fragile and the mind will become more sensitive.
For children, when their parents divorce, they sometimes think that their parents abandoned them, and as the abandoned one, they will be very fragile inside, live cautiously, and will be very sensitive to everything.
- The relationship between parent and child will gradually fade.
After the parents divorce, some children will think that it is the father who does not want the mother or the mother who does not want the father, so they will hold a grudge against the father or the mother, and over time, the relationship with the parents will fade. In addition to this situation, there is also a situation where the parents marry someone else after divorce, and have children. At this time, the children will think that their father or mother is not their own, but other children's, thus The relationship with the father or mother has faded.
- Will become more and more inferior.
Children of divorced parents generally have very low self-esteem. If their parents do not remarry, they will feel that they have no father or no mother, but if their parents remarry, they will feel that their parents love someone else. Love him, and thus become very low self-esteem. Moreover, they often feel that they are different from other children, which is also a thing that makes them feel inferior.
In short, divorce of parents is often a bad thing for children, and it will have a bad impact on them, so we should give more care and love to such children, so that they can feel warm from the other side, Don't discriminate against them, don't let them become more and more lonely and inferior.
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