The elementary school student scored 100 points for his composition 'Lonely', the lines are full of sadness, and the teacher's message is very warm
When we were students, we would encounter all kinds of questions, including multiple-choice questions, fill-in-the-blank questions, and judgment questions. Of course, in addition to these questions, there are also composition questions that allow students to express themselves. When teachers teach children to write compositions, they often say "use your own true emotions to create". Some children can do this very well, while others can't.
The elementary school student scored 100 points for his composition "Lonely", the lines are full of sadness, and the teacher's message is very warm
A second-grade kid’s composition caused discussion on the Internet. The teacher gave him the title "Lonely", and the content of his composition was roughly like this: "My parents divorced, and then my father remarried a daughter. They gave birth to a younger brother. Before the Chinese New Year, my father said that our family would go on a trip together, and I was very happy, but when I packed my luggage, my father only took the woman and the younger brother, not me." This composition There is no word "loneliness" in the full text, but it makes netizens feel that the child's words are full of sadness.
For this composition, the teacher not only gave a perfect score of 100, but also left a heartwarming message below: May you have a warm winter, and may your spring not be cold, come on! Every year in the future, if you want, you can come to the teacher's house to celebrate the New Year. Netizens read this article and said that the child is too distressing.
How does the divorce of parents affect children?
- The heart will become more fragile and the mind will become more sensitive.
For children, when their parents divorce, they sometimes think that their parents have abandoned them, and as the abandoned one, they will be very fragile inside, live carefully, and be very sensitive to everything.
- The relationship between parents and children will gradually fade.
After the parents divorce, some children will think that it is the father who lost the mother or the mother lost the father, so they will feel resentment towards the father or mother, and as time goes by, the relationship with their parents will weaken. In addition to this situation, there is another situation where the parents marry someone else after divorce and have a child. At this time, the child will think that his father or mother is not his own, but another child's, so The relationship with Mom or Dad fades.
- You will become more and more inferior.
Children whose parents are divorced generally have low self-esteem. If their parents do not remarry, they will feel that they have no father or mother, but if their parents remarry, they will feel that their parents love someone else. Love him, and thus become very inferior. Moreover, they often feel that they are different from other children, which is also a thing that makes them feel inferior.
In short, the divorce of parents is often a bad thing for children, and it will have a bad influence on them. Therefore, we should give more care and love to such children, so that they can feel warmth from another aspect. Don't discriminate against them, don't let them become more and more lonely and inferior.
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