The bride's request to get off the bus fails and threatens not to get married, the groom turns away, and the bride stands in embarrassment
As the saying goes: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, those who are close to ink are black", and it is also said that "Things gather together, and people are divided into groups", what kind of person you are with, what kind of person you will become after a long time, what kind of person are you? This kind of person will be the kind of person you make friends with.
Of course, this depends on the situation, that is, if your influence is smaller than the other party, then you will be influenced and transformed by the other party, and if your influence is greater, the other party will be influenced and transformed by you.
Over time, if two people develop in a bad direction, they will have similar smells. Therefore, you must choose carefully when making friends. If you feel that the other party's character is not good, you must decisively refuse and do not communicate.
Men and women alike, there are many examples of their lives being affected by staggering friends. Men are easy to make friends with wine and meat, but women are often pitted by the so-called "girlfriends".
Just like the woman below, she had already boarded the wedding car to the groom's door, but because she listened to the "kind persuasion" of her best friend, the wedding ended like this. The groom turned away in a rage, leaving the bride behind. Standing there regret crying.
So, what did this "kind-hearted" bestie say to the bride? Why did the groom leave the bride and turn away?
The woman Xiaoli, with fair skin and beautiful skin, is tall and tall. She is 25 years old. She graduated from college and has no formal job. She works as a receptionist in a hotel. She has a college boyfriend, Li Wei, who is tall and handsome, has a stable job, and is the manager of a travel company.
Once, due to the weather, tourists were stranded in the local area, and Li Wei arranged accommodation for the tourists, so he met Xiao Li. Li Wei was fascinated by Xiaoli's beauty at that time, and then he started a passionate pursuit of her.
Xiao Li also likes Li Wei, so the two quickly fell in love. After half a year, Li Wei proposed to Xiao Li. Xiaoli agreed, but on the condition that Li Wei must buy a house of more than 100 square meters in the city, and the house must have his name written on it, so that he can feel safe.
In order to hold the beauty back, Li Wei bought a new house and wrote Xiao Li's name without saying a word. Xiao Li's family asked for 400,000 betrothal gifts and a set of gold jewelry, and Li Wei agreed one by one.
Li Wei is the only child in the family, and the family conditions are not bad, but in order to get married, he bought a house and received a betrothal gift, and also took out his parents' wealth, but for Xiao Li, he was also willing to pay.
The wedding was held as scheduled, and Xiaoli came to Li Wei's house in a wedding car in a pure white wedding dress. Li Wei opened the car door and asked Xiao Li to get out of the car. Xiao Li was about to get off the car, and her best friend and bridesmaid sneered at Li Wei, "Don't you understand the rules of your family? You don't even prepare the bride for the alighting ceremony. Is it?"
The girlfriends lied down in front of Xiaoli and said that one of their colleagues asked for 8,000 for the alighting ceremony. If Xiaoli didn't ask for the alighting ceremony, she would lose face in front of her colleagues in the future. When Xiao Li heard what her best friend said, she thought it was reasonable, so she said to the groom with a cold face, "You must prepare me for getting off the bus."
The groom didn't expect the bridesmaids to come up with such a bad idea. He was so anxious that he said to Xiao Li, now that all the guests are here, you should get off the bus first. When you get married, I will give you everything.
The best friend said to Xiaoli, don't listen to him, after today, you will never have the chance to ask for it again. Xiao Li felt that her best friend was right, so she asked Li Wei to take out a gift for getting off the bus, otherwise she would not get off the bus.
Li Wei trembled with anger, pointed at Xiao Li and said, "You want to buy a house and add your name. I wrote your name without saying a word. You want 400,000 betrothal gifts and jewelry, and I gave them too. You didn't say you wanted to buy a house. Car Li, my family really has no money now, where will I go to collect money for the car in a while?
Xiao Li was also angry and said: No matter how much money I have, what I want is your attitude, but what about you? I'm not married yet, dare to yell at me!
Li Wei's cousin, seeing that the bride refused to get off the bus, hurriedly ran into the house and told her aunt that the bride wanted to get off the bus, but now she refuses to get off the bus without getting off the bus. Li Wei's mother is in a hurry. After all, relatives and friends are here, and this is a critical moment, but what should I do?
Li Wei's aunt told her not to worry. The two came to the wedding car. Li Wei's mother told Xiaoli that she didn't say she wanted to get off the car at the beginning, but now she really can't get the money, why don't she give you 2000 first? .
Xiao Li was not happy when she heard it, and said angrily: 2,000 yuan to send beggars? If I can't get 10,000 yuan to get off the bus today, I'm not going to get married.
The best friend also added fuel to the fire, saying that the money for getting off the bus is not given, and there is no red envelope for the bridesmaid. This is too contempt for the people on the bride's side, and it is too angry to have such a marriage.
When Li Wei's aunt heard what the bridesmaid said, her heart aroused, and she pointed at the bridesmaid and scolded: For the sake of one of her bridesmaid's red envelopes, you are here to sow discord and break up the marriage of the newlyweds. What kind of girlfriend are you?
Then he said to Xiaoli: You are so mindless when you get married, listen to what your girlfriends say, how many of them really wish you well? Today, the marriage will not end. My nephew has a house, a car and a stable job. Are you afraid that he will not be able to marry a wife?
Li Wei's mother frowned and said: "I used to be a very good child, how has it become like this now?" Aunt Li Wei said: She has never been a good person.
Then, Li Wei's aunt told a secret, Li Wei blushed with anger, and Xiao Li was immediately ashamed, and quickly got out of the car and prayed for Li Wei's forgiveness.
So, what secret did Li Wei's aunt tell? Why does Lily feel ashamed? Will their wedding go ahead?
It turned out that Li Wei's aunt went to the living room to pour water one night and overheard Xiaoli talking to her parents on the balcony. Xiaoli's parents asked Xiaoli to add her name to the house on the phone, and also asked Xiaoli to push the bride price on her parents.
Li Wei's aunt later heard from others that Xiao Li's parents did not have formal jobs, and they owed a lot of debt because of investment and financial management. The family of origin was not good, but seeing that her nephew loved her so much, she didn't say much.
Now it seems that Xiao Li's parents, the lions, want to wait for Xiao Li's dowry to pay off their debts, taking Li Wei as a big deal. If you really love each other, why at such a critical moment, you still listen to the words of your best friend and make trouble without reason?
After Li Wei learned the truth, he was so angry that he threw off Xiao Li's hand and turned to leave. Xiao Li said angrily: "If you want to leave, don't regret it!"
Li Wei's aunt sneered and said, "The people who carry the big sedan chair are all ladies. With a woman like you, will we still regret it?"
A wedding broke up because the bride was about to get off the car. Xiaoli stood there and looked at the back of the groom leaving and regretted it, and her best friend saw that the wedding turned into a farce, and she was a little embarrassed that she didn't know what to say. .
Netizens' opinions:
Some netizens said: This bride has no brains, she just listens to what her best friend says, and has no opinion. If such a woman gets married, the groom will endure it in the future, and he will have to compare with others every three days. Such a marriage will definitely not be happy.
Some netizens said: This kind of girlfriend is really eye-opening. She even broke up the bride's wedding at the wedding scene. I really don't know what such a scumbag girlfriend is going to do?
Some netizens said: Make friends really depends on your character, those who harm friends under the guise of girlfriends are not real girlfriends. Don't treat everyone as a girlfriend, there are not many "girlfriends" who wish you a good life.
Some netizens also said: When we got married, we had to prepare the red envelopes for getting off the car and the bridesmaids. The groom's family really didn't understand the rules.