The bride asked for a gift to get off the car but threatened not to get married, the groom turned around and left, and the bride stood there in embarrassment

As the saying goes: "When you are close to vermilion, you will be red, and if you are close to ink, you will be black." It also says "Things of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups." What kind of person you will become with time, what kind of person you will become, and what you are What kind of people are you, and what kind of people are your friends.

Of course, this matter depends on the situation, that is, if your influence is smaller than the other party, then you will be influenced and reformed by the other party, and if your influence is greater, the other party will be influenced and reformed by you.

Over time, if two people develop in a bad direction, they will have the same taste. Therefore, you must choose carefully when making friends. If you feel that the character of the other party is not good, you must resolutely refuse and do not communicate.

Regardless of whether it is a man or a woman, there are many examples of affecting their lives because of making friends. It is easy for men to make friends with wine and meat if they make friends carelessly, but women are often cheated by so-called "girlfriends".

Just like the woman below, she had already gotten into the wedding car to the door of the groom’s house, but because she listened to the “kind persuasion” of her best friend, the wedding ended like this, and the groom turned away in a rage, leaving the bride behind Standing in place regretting and crying.

So, what did this "well-meaning" girlfriend say to the bride? Why did the groom leave the bride behind?

The woman Xiaoli, fair skin, beautiful, tall, 25 years old, graduated from a college, has no formal job, and works as a receptionist in a hotel. She has a boyfriend Li Wei with a college degree. The boy is tall and handsome. He has a stable job and is the manager of a travel company.

Once, due to the weather, tourists were stranded in the local area, and Li Wei arranged accommodation for the tourists, so he got to know Xiaoli. Li Wei was fascinated by Xiaoli's beauty at that time, and later launched a passionate pursuit of her.

Xiaoli also liked Li Wei, so the two fell in love quickly, and after half a year, Li Wei proposed to Xiaoli. Xiaoli agreed, but the condition is that Li Wei must buy a house of more than 100 square meters in the city, and the house must be written with her name, so as to have a sense of security.

In order to embrace the beauty, Li Wei bought a new house and wrote Xiaoli's name on it without saying a word. Xiaoli's family asked for a gift of 400,000 yuan and a set of gold jewelry, and Li Wei agreed one by one.

Li Wei is the only child in the family, and his family conditions are not bad, but in order to get married, he bought a house and received a bride price, and spent all his parents' money, but for Xiaoli, he is willing to pay.

The wedding was held as scheduled, and Xiaoli came to Li Wei's house in a wedding car in a white wedding dress. Li Wei opened the car door and asked Xiao Li to get off the car. Xiao Li was about to get off the car, but her best friend and bridesmaid sneered at Li Wei and said, "Don't you understand the rules of your family? You don't even prepare the get-off ceremony for the bride." Is it?"

The best friend lay in front of Xiaoli and said that one of their colleagues asked for a gift of 8,000 for getting off the car. If Xiaoli didn't ask for the gift of getting off the car, she would lose face in front of her colleagues in the future. When Xiaoli heard what her best friend said, she felt that it made sense, so she said to the groom with a cold face: "You must prepare a get-off ceremony for me."

The groom didn't expect the bridesmaid to come up with such a bad idea, so he was very anxious, and said to Xiaoli, now that all the guests are here, you can get out of the car first, and when you get married, I will give you all the bags.

The best friend said to Xiaoli, don't listen to him, after today, you will never have a chance to ask for it again. Xiaoli felt that her best friend was right, so she asked Li Wei to show the gift for getting off the car, otherwise she would not get off the car.

Li Wei was trembling with anger, pointed at Xiaoli and said, you want to buy a house and add your name, I wrote your name without saying a word, you want 400,000 dowry and jewelry, I also gave it, and you didn’t say you would buy it at the time Che Li, my family really has no money now, where will I collect the money for the car?

Xiaoli also said angrily: No matter how much money is, what I want is your attitude, but what about you? How dare you yell at me if you're not married yet!

Seeing that the bride refused to get off the car, Li Wei's cousin hurried into the house and told her aunt that the bride was going to get off the car, and now she refused to get off the car without the gift. Li Wei's mother was in a hurry. After all, relatives and friends were here. What should I do if this is a critical moment?

Li Wei's aunt told her not to worry, and the two came to the wedding car. Li Wei's mother said to Xiaoli that she didn't say that she wanted to get off the car at the beginning, but now I really can't afford the money, why don't I give you 2000 first? .

Xiaoli was not happy when she heard it, and said angrily: 2000 yuan to send the beggar? If I can't come up with 10,000 yuan to get off the car today, I won't get married.

The best friend also added fuel to the fire, saying that she didn't give the money for getting off the car, and she didn't even have the bridesmaid's red envelope.

Li Wei's aunt became angry when she heard what the bridesmaid said, and she pointed at the bridesmaid and cursed: You are here to sow discord and break up the couple's marriage because of the red envelope of one of your bridesmaids, what kind of girlfriend are you?

Then he said to Xiaoli: You are so ignorant when you get married, listen to what your girlfriends say, how many girlfriends really wish you well? Today the marriage is over. My nephew has a house, a car and a stable job. Are you afraid that he won’t be able to marry a wife?

Li Wei's mother frowned and said, "A child who was fine before, how did he become like this now?" Aunt Li Wei said: She has never been a good person.

Then, Li Wei's aunt told a secret, and Li Wei blushed with anger, but Xiaoli was ashamed immediately, and hurriedly got out of the car to beg Li Wei's forgiveness.

So, what secret did Li Wei's aunt tell? Why is Xiao Li feeling ashamed? Can their wedding go ahead?

It turned out that Li Wei's aunt went to the living room to pour water for a drink one night, and overheard Xiaoli talking to her parents on the balcony. Xiaoli's parents asked Xiaoli to add her name to the house on the phone, and asked Xiaoli to push the bride price to her parents.

Li Wei's aunt later heard from others that Xiaoli's parents didn't have a formal job and owed a lot of debt because of investment and financial management. The original family is not good, but seeing her nephew love her so much, she can't say much.

Now it seems that Xiaoli's parents, the lions, opened their mouths and wanted to wait for Xiaoli's bride price to pay off the debt, and took Li Wei for a fool. If you really love each other, why do you still listen to your girlfriend's words at such a critical moment and make trouble for no reason?

After Li Wei learned the truth, he was so angry that he shook off Xiaoli's hand and turned away. Xiaoli said angrily: "If you want to leave, don't regret it!"

Li Wei's aunt said with a sneer: "Eighth, the big sedan chairs are carried by ladies from all over the world. With a woman like you, would we still regret it?"

A wedding broke up because the bride was about to get off the car. Xiaoli stood there and watched the groom's back with regrets, while her best friend saw that the wedding turned into a farce, and she was a little embarrassed and didn't know what to say. .

User opinion:

Some netizens said: This bride has no brains, listens to what her girlfriends say, and has no opinions. If such a woman marries in, the groom will suffer enough in the future. He has to compare with others every day. Such a marriage will never be happy.

Some netizens said: Such girlfriends are really eye-opening. They even broke up the bride's wedding at the wedding scene. I really don't know why such cheating girlfriends are here?

Some netizens said: To make friends, you really need to look at your character clearly. Those who harm friends under the guise of girlfriends are not real girlfriends. Don't treat everyone as a girlfriend, there are not many "girlfriends" who want you to live well.

Some netizens also said: When you get married, you have to prepare the alighting gift and the bridesmaid's red envelope. The groom's family really doesn't understand the rules.