I insisted on 'DINK' for 10 years, and my wife insisted on having a baby at the age of 41. How is life after the baby is born?
Nowadays, people's living conditions are getting better and better, and people's thinking has also changed accordingly. In the thinking of the older generation, one must have children after getting married. Children can continue the incense of the family and provide for themselves in retirement. Many old people also look forward to being able to hold grandchildren. But now many young people don't think this way anymore, and some people have begun to feel that life is easier without children.
Celebrity couple Dink has regretted it for 10 years, and insists on having a baby at the age of 41. How is the family doing now?
Many people want to be DINKs and not have children. This is a right thing in itself. After all, it is their duty to think about themselves. Whether or not to have children is also the result of the mutual agreement of the couple. It is said that there are not a few people who have DINK ideas, but it is only a small number of people who can actually persist in not having children for the rest of their lives.
People who choose DINK have many reasons. Some don’t like children affecting the two-person world, and some don’t want children to increase the burden due to lack of financial ability. The reason why star Xie Lan chooses DINK is because he doesn’t want to affect his career. Speaking of Xie Lan, you may not be familiar with it, but I believe everyone knows about her character Li Chunxiu in "The Mansion Gate".
Xie Lan is good-looking and has a slender figure. She is passionate about acting and has won numerous awards. With a strong ambition, she discussed with her husband Shi Xiaohong after they got married to be a DINK and not have children, fearing that pregnancy and childbirth would affect her figure and hinder her acting career. Her husband, Shi Xiaohong, agreed to her, thinking that the two of them can live well without children.
The two who decided to dink still had a good time at the beginning, but as time went by, the middle-aged two did not have the same dedication as before. Instead, the two of them returned home every day after a busy day. The silence and loneliness at home. The loneliness of not having children made the two feel that life was so meaningless.
The two who had insisted on DINK for 10 years began to regret it. After deciding to have a child, the 41-year-old Xie Lan finally became pregnant. Because of the older mother, Xie Lan and her husband were extra careful during pregnancy. In October of pregnancy, Xie Lan successfully gave birth to a baby. Now that the child is 8 years old, the three of Xie Lan's family enjoy themselves happily. After work, the three of them will go out to travel together, and their lives can be described as impressive.
Before deciding to become a DINK, what should you do well?
01 Ideological Work for Parents
The thinking of the previous generation is still looking forward to having grandchildren. Most people can't understand the DINK, let alone why they don't want children. Therefore, before becoming a DINK, it is necessary to do a good job in the ideological work of the parents, it is best to obtain the consent of the parents, so that the family can live in harmony.
02 Economic preparation
If you become a DINK, you will have no one to take care of yourself or support yourself when you are old. Before becoming a DINK, you must prepare your own pension and save enough money to cope with your life of being helpless when you get old in the future. The economy is the basic need to protect your life.
03 Prepare your own mind
Dink will face many problems in the future, such as the loneliness and loneliness that he will face when he is old and there are only two people in his family, and when other people's families are happy and harmonious during the holidays, he is still a two-person family. lonely. Only after thinking about these consequences, decide whether to become a DINK.
The key to doing things is not to regret. No matter which choice we make, we must think about the cause and effect and make a decision after careful consideration.
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