Case｜A bride in Jiangsu wanted 88,000 to get off the car after listening to her best friend, but the groom slammed the door and left: Don’t get married

It is said that it is fireproof, anti-theft, and girlfriends. Some girlfriends are really good for the other party, while others don't see the other party's good. This is not in Jiangsu, there was a wedding farce. On the day of the wedding, the bride misunderstood what her best friend said, and said that she had to get off the car for 88,000 yuan. As a result, the groom slammed the door angrily, saying: This marriage is not over.

The incident happened on January 17, 2022. The eve of the Spring Festival is always the peak time for marriage. Firstly, many relatives and friends go home and can come to the wedding; . But once the wedding turns into a farce, it will lead to a bad year.

A newlywed couple in Suzhou, Jiangsu Province received their marriage certificate early, and they belonged to the legal couple. But no one expected that an accident happened on the day of the wedding. The bride asked for a 88,000 get-off gift while staying in the wedding car, and kept saying that if the groom didn't give it, it meant he didn't value her.

From the videos posted by netizens, it is not difficult to see that the financial conditions of both the groom and the bride are not bad, the wedding car is also a luxury car, and the bride is wearing gold, silver, phoenix crown and Xiapei. Generally speaking, it shouldn't be difficult for such a family to come up with 88,000 yuan, but why would the groom slam the door and choose not to get married, rather than take the money?

There are naturally many other factors in this. Perhaps the relationship between the bride and groom is ordinary, and they came together through a blind date. The emotional foundation is weak, and the interest of marriage is even more important. Therefore, the groom will feel angry when he hears that the bride will pay 88,000 before getting off the car.

Integrity is the key to doing business. Both parties have negotiated a good price, but you raise the price at the door. This is undoubtedly an act of disrespect for martial arts. But if it was just that, the groom might not be so furious. What really provoked the groom on the spot was not only the attitude of the bride, but also the identity of the mastermind behind it.

In the video, the bride arrives at the entrance of the hotel in a luxury car, and the groom happily greets the bride to get off the car. But the bride pretended to be twitchy, she was unwilling to open the door and get out of the car. Seeing this, the groom thought that something had offended the bride, so he kindly persuaded the bride to get married first, and talk about it later.

But then the bride's request made the groom a little annoyed. According to local customs, the bride should get off the car with a gift, which is a red envelope. The red envelopes can range from a few hundred to as many as thousands, it all depends on your heart. But the bride in the video spoke directly, without getting out of the car without 88,000.

This made the groom a little angry and speechless, the wedding scene brought so much cash. So the bridegroom begged the bride, if it’s okay, I’ll give it to you after getting married. But the bride insisted that she would not get out of the car without cash. Seeing the groom's begging in such a low voice, the bride became more confident, and then said, "This is what my best friend said. She said that if she doesn't give the money, it means that the man doesn't cherish it, and she won't get off the car for 80,000 or 80 cents less."

Originally, it would be fine if the bride didn't say "best friend", but when the groom heard the words "bride's best friend", his eyes turned red with anger. He slammed the door and left with a single sentence: "You will listen to what your girlfriend says, but I won't listen to mine. Then you and your girlfriend will get married!"

Then the groom turned around and entered the hotel without looking back, and announced that today's marriage would not end. And the bride in the car didn't seem to realize what happened, she was caught off guard and could only stare blankly at the groom's back. When the bridegroom said that he would not get married, the bride finally shed tears of regret.

Why did the groom get so angry when he heard the word girlfriend? Perhaps during the process of getting to know each other, this best friend hindered their relationship many times and became the biggest obstacle to their marriage. It is also possible that the best friend just doesn't like the bride and deliberately provokes the relationship between the two.

After all, the 88,000 get-off gift is too ridiculous for an ordinary family, even for a wealthy family, it is not something that can be taken out immediately. The poor bride didn't have her own opinion, she only knew how to obey her best friend's words, but she was cheated by her best friend without knowing it, and a good wedding turned into a farce.

Of course, some netizens think that the behavior of the groom is also inappropriate. After all, the wedding is a major event in life, and it should not embarrass both of them because of impulsiveness. After such a commotion, although the bride's reputation has become bad, it is even more difficult for the groom to get married again. Who wants to marry his daughter to a man who regrets it on the wedding day.

But in the final analysis, it is the bride herself who should pay for this farce the most. After all, there is nothing wrong with being stupid, but being stupid and not knowing it is a sin. It is not only immoral but also illegal for a bride to ask for a high-priced get-off gift on her wedding day.

Because in China's newly promulgated "Civil Code" in 2021, there are clear regulations that prohibit arranged, bought and sold marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to ask for property through marriage. It is illegal to ask for property in the name of marriage. And the bride asking for a high-priced get-off gift on her wedding day is undoubtedly an illegal act that does not comply with the provisions of the "Civil Code".

Not only that, even under certain circumstances, asking for a bride price is against the law. According to the "Civil Code of the People's Republic of China", if a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, if it is found that it falls under the following circumstances, the people's court shall support it: the two parties have not gone through the marriage registration procedures; life; pre-marital payment and cause the payer to live in difficulty.

To sum up, asking for a bride price for a marriage and asking for three golds is itself a matter of criticism. Many believe that bride price is the main reason why young people are afraid to marry. In fact, the bride price is just a kind of Chinese custom. In some places, there are marriages that do not require the bride price. Whether the married life is happy does not depend on the bride price, but on the relationship between the husband and wife and the maintenance of love.

Of course, this does not mean that the law supports the woman asking for a bride price at will. Although the sky-high price of the bride price is not illegal, it is not supported. If the husband and wife really come together because of love, I believe that even without the bride price, they can love each other until they grow old. On the contrary, if the husband and wife have no feelings, then the sky-high bride price at the time of marriage will become the key to property disputes in the end.