Case｜A bride in Jiangsu asked for 88,000 to get off the car after listening to her best friend, but the groom slammed the door: don’t get married

It is said that fire prevention, theft prevention and protection against girlfriends, some girlfriends are really good for each other, while others do not see each other's goodness. This was not a wedding farce in Jiangsu. On the wedding day, the bride misheard her best friend's words and said she would get off the bus at 88,000 yuan. As a result, the groom slammed the door angrily and said, "This marriage will not end."

The incident happened on January 17, 2022. The eve of the Spring Festival has always been the peak period for marriage. First, many relatives and friends came home and were able to come to the wedding. Second, it was convenient to organize weddings after the new year. . But once the wedding turns into a farce, it will lead to a bad year.

A pair of newlyweds in Suzhou, Jiangsu Province received their marriage certificates early, and they are legal couples. They are just waiting for the wedding on the auspicious day and tell all their relatives and friends about their happy event. But no one expected that an accident happened on the wedding day. The bride asked for an 88,000 alighting ceremony when she stayed in the wedding car, and kept saying that if the groom didn't give it, he didn't pay attention to her.

It is not difficult to see from the videos posted by netizens that the economic conditions of both the groom and the bride are not bad. Generally speaking, it should not be difficult for such a family to pay 88,000 yuan, but why would the groom prefer to slam the door and choose not to get married rather than take the money?

There are naturally many other factors. Perhaps the relationship between the bride and groom is normal, and they come together on a blind date. The emotional foundation is weak, and the benefits of marriage are even heavier. Therefore, the groom will feel angry when he hears that the bride needs 88,000 before getting off the bus.

The key to doing business is integrity. Both parties have negotiated a good price, but you are raising the price at the door. This is undoubtedly a behavior that does not talk about martial arts. But if that's all, the groom might not be so furious. What really provoked the groom on the spot was not only the attitude of the bride, but also the identity of the mastermind behind it.

In the video, the bride arrives at the entrance of the hotel in a luxury car, and the groom happily greets the bride and gets off the bus. But the bride pretended to be awkward and didn't want to open the door and get out of the car. Upon seeing this, the groom thought that something had made the bride unhappy, so he persuaded the bride to get married first, and talk about it later.

But then the bride's request made the groom a little annoyed. According to local customs, the bride must get off the bus with a gift, which is a red envelope. Red envelopes can range from a few hundred to a thousand, depending on your heart. But the bride in the video spoke directly and did not get out of the car without 88,000.

This made the groom a little angry and speechless, so much cash was brought at the wedding scene. So the groom begged the bride, don't do it or not, and give it to you after the marriage. But the bride insisted that she would not get out of the car without cash. Seeing the groom's humble request, the bride became more assertive, and then said, "This is what my girlfriend said. She said that if she doesn't give money, it means that men don't cherish it, and she won't get out of the car if it is less than 80,000 yuan."

Originally, it would be fine if the bride didn't say her best friend, but when the groom heard the words "best friend of the bride", his eyes turned red with anger. He slammed down the door and slammed away: "Listen to what your girlfriend says, but I don't listen to me. Then you and your girlfriend can get married!"

Then the groom turned around and entered the hotel without looking back, and announced that the marriage was not going to be married today. And the bride in the car didn't seem to realize what happened, she was a little caught off guard and could only stare blankly at the groom's back. The bride finally shed tears of remorse when she heard the groom say he was not getting married.

Why is the groom so hot when he hears the word "girlfriend"? Perhaps in the process of getting to know the two, this girlfriend has hindered the relationship between the two many times, and has become the biggest obstacle to their marriage. It is also possible that the best friend just doesn't like the bride, and deliberately provokes the relationship between the two.

After all, the drop-off ceremony of 80,008 is too absurd for an ordinary family. Even a wealthy family can't take it out at once. The poor bride has no opinion and only knows to obey her best friend's words. In the end, she was deceived by her best friend without knowing it. The last good wedding turned into a farce.

Of course, some netizens think that the groom's behavior is also inappropriate. After all, the wedding is a major event in life, and it should not embarrass both of them because of impulsiveness. After such a riot, although the reputation of the bride has become stinky, it is even more difficult for the groom to marry again. Who wants to marry his daughter to a man who regrets it on the wedding day.

But in the final analysis, it is the bride herself who should pay the most for this farce. There is nothing wrong with being stupid after all, but being stupid without knowing it is a sin. It is not only immoral but also suspected of breaking the law that the bride asks for a high-priced drop-off gift on the wedding day.

Because in China's newly promulgated "Civil Code" in 2021, it is clearly stipulated that arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other behaviors that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited. It is forbidden to ask for property through marriage. It is illegal to ask for property in the name of marriage. The bride's request for a high-priced drop-off gift on the wedding day is undoubtedly an illegal act that does not comply with the "Civil Code".

Not only that, but in some cases, asking for a dowry is against the law. According to the "Civil Code of the People's Republic of China", if a party requests the return of the dowry paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is found that it falls under the following circumstances: the two parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; Living; giving before marriage and causing difficulties for the giver to live.

To sum up, marrying a dowry and asking for three golds is itself a criticism. Many people believe that the dowry is the main reason why young people are afraid to marry. In fact, betrothal gifts are only a kind of Chinese custom. In some places, there are also marriages that do not require betrothal gifts. The happiness of married life does not depend on the bride price, but on the relationship between the husband and wife and the maintenance of love.

Of course, this does not mean that the law supports the woman to ask for the bride price at will. Although the high-priced bride price is not illegal, it is not supported. If the husband and wife really come together because of love, I believe that even if there is no bride price, they can still love to the end. On the contrary, if the husband and wife have no feelings, the sky-high dowry at the time of marriage will become the key to property disputes in the end.