Adhering to the 'DINK' for 10 years, the wife insisted on having a baby at the age of 41. How was the baby after the birth?

Nowadays, people's living conditions are getting better and better, and people's thinking has also changed. In the thinking of the older generation, when you get married, you must have children. Children can continue the incense for the family, and they can also provide for their own retirement. Many elderly people also look forward to being able to hold grandchildren. But now many young people don't think that way, and some people have begun to think that having no children makes life easier.

The celebrity couple Dink regretted it for 10 years. At the age of 41, he insisted on having a baby. How is the family doing now?

Many people want to be DINK people and not have children, which is a right thing in itself. After all, it is their duty to think about themselves, and whether or not to have children is also the result of the mutual agreement of the husband and wife. It is said that there are not a few people who have DINK ideas, but it is only a small number of people who can actually stick to it for a lifetime and not have children.

There are many reasons for people who choose DINK. Some do not like children to affect their world. Some do not want children to increase their burden because of their lack of financial ability. The reason why star Xie Lan chose DINK is because they do not want to affect their own career. Speaking of Xie Lan, you may not be familiar with it, but Li Chunxiu, the character she played in "The Gate of the Mansion", is believed to be familiar to everyone.

Xie Lan is good-looking and slender. She is keen on performing arts and has won numerous awards. With a strong professionalism, she and her husband Shi Xiaohong discussed with her husband Shi Xiaohong that she would be a DINK family and not have children. She was afraid that pregnancy and childbirth would affect her figure and hinder her acting career. Her husband Shi Xiaohong agreed to her, thinking that they could live well without children.

The two who decided DINK had a good life at the beginning, but as time passed, the two who were middle-aged did not have the same professionalism as they used to be. Instead, they returned home after a busy day every day. Silence and loneliness at home. The loneliness of not having children makes the two feel that life is so meaningless.

After insisting on DINK for 10 years, the two began to regret it. After deciding to have a child, 41-year-old Xie Lan finally became pregnant. Due to being an older mother, Xie Lan and her husband were extra careful during pregnancy. In ten months of pregnancy, Xie Lan successfully gave birth to a baby. Now that the child is 8 years old, Xie Lan's family of three is enjoying themselves happily. After work, the three of them will go out to travel together, and their life can be said to be very colorful.

Before deciding to become a DINK family, what should you do?

01 Parent's Thought Work

The thinking of the previous generation is still more looking forward to being able to hold a grandson. Most people can't understand the DINK people, and they can't understand why they don't want children. Therefore, before becoming a DINK, it is necessary to do a good job of the ideological work of the parents, and it is best to obtain the consent of the parents, so that the family can live a more harmonious life.

02Economic preparation

If you become a DINK, when you get old, no one will take care of you or support yourself. Before becoming a DINK, you need to prepare your pension and save enough money to cope with the life without support when you are old in the future. The economy is the basic need to ensure your life.

03 Prepare your mind

Dink will face many problems in the future, such as the loneliness and loneliness that he will face when there are only two husband and wife at home when he is old, and other people's families are happy family during the New Year and festival, but he is still two people. lonely. Only after thinking about these consequences, then decide whether to become a DINK.

The key to doing things is not to regret. No matter which choice we make, we must think about the cause and effect and make a decision after careful consideration.

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