What is the difference between ''rural child'' and ''urban child''? After growing up, the gap is too obvious
Every child has a different family background and origin, and it is mainly up to them whether they will succeed in the future. But it is undeniable that ''rural children'' and ''urban children'' have different starting points at the beginning, and the surrounding environment may also affect the child's life.
Xiao Zhang has been busy with the transfer of his child’s household registration recently, because Xiao Zhang’s child is about to go to school, as a father, he wants to give the child better resources, and let the child live in the city to enjoy a big city education And the environment is the best way. But Xiao Zhang is a migrant worker, and it is very difficult to get a local hukou for his child.
If the problem of the child going to school cannot be resolved before the school starts, Xiao Zhang has no choice but to send the child back to his hometown to study. Then the child's future may be ruined like this. Xiao Zhang couldn't help sighing every time he thought of this. I have worked hard for half my life, just to jump out of the countryside and let my children live in a better living environment, but in the end I have to send my children back.
How big is the gap between ''rural children'' and ''urban children'' in 10 years?
The living environment in rural areas and cities is so different, so what is the difference between "rural children" and "urban children"? Many people may think that no matter where they grow up, as long as their children work hard enough in the future, they can change their destiny, but because of different living environments, children's personalities will also vary greatly. You may not believe it, the gap between ''rural children'' and ''urban children'' is really too obvious when they grow up:
◆Gap in character
Children in rural areas are generally pure and simple, and basically have no mind. But they who have lived in the village since they were young will inevitably have a little inferiority complex in their hearts, especially after 10 years, the children in the countryside will basically go to school in the city. magnified.
The children in the city will be more generous in character, because children who grow up in the city have a rich after-school life, better living conditions, and more contact with things, so they are more indifferent. Therefore, compared with rural children, city children appear more generous and cheerful.
◆Gap in temperament
Because they have attended various cram schools since they were young, the knowledge and skills of most urban children are much higher than those of rural children of the same age. And urban children who have received a good education since childhood are really better than rural children in terms of conversation and temperament. This gap becomes more pronounced the longer it grows.
◆The gap between vision and experience
Children living in the city can get in touch with more things and have a broader horizon; while rural children, as long as they live in the countryside, their vision will be limited to a small circle due to the influence of the general environment. Maybe when the kids in the city are attending Mathematical Olympiad cram school, the kids in the countryside are looking at a certain hand with their mobile phones.
Therefore, the gap between rural children and urban children is really huge after 10 years. But there are no absolutes. Children living in cities just have a relatively high starting point, and their future personal development still depends on themselves. When the rural children jump out of the circle, their hard-working qualities will become the biggest help for them to catch up with the urban children.