The difference between '18-year-old baby' and '28-year-old baby' in life after 20 years is not so big
''Late marriage and late childbearing, fewer and better births'' This is a slogan put forward by the country long ago, hoping to optimize the national population structure and improve the quality of the population. With the continuous development of the times, these slogans are naturally not spoken now, but such problems still exist, so what is the difference between early marriage and early birth and late marriage and late childbearing?
What's the difference between "18-year-old baby" and "28-year-old baby"?
The two girls, Xiao Lin and Xiao Zhang, are good friends who grew up together. They live in the same town at the same age. They can be said to be both friends and neighbors. Xiaolin and Xiaozhang finished elementary school and junior high school together, and the nine-year compulsory education ended. Xiaolin and Xiaozhang had different choices for the future. Xiaolin felt that going to school was useless, learning book knowledge was very boring, and he was not interested in learning at all. , it is better to go out to work and earn a few more years of money.
Xiao Zhang's academic performance is average, but she never thought of giving up studying, because she knew that only by studying can she get ahead and live a good life in the future. Xiao Lin did not change her mind about Xiao Zhang's persuasion, and decided to drop out of school to work. A girl's studies are not very important, so I let Xiao Lin decide for herself.
Xiao Zhang went to high school after junior high school, and was admitted to university at the age of 18. When he first entered college, he heard from his family that Xiao Lin was married at home, and he did not have a marriage certificate because he was not yet of legal age. Another year passed, Xiaolin and Xiaozhang were both 19 years old. Xiaozhang came home from school and saw Xiaolin in the town. At this time, Xiao Lin was holding a child in his arms, and the two chatted for a while. Xiao Lin said that he regretted it now. He became a mother when he was still a child, and his husband was idle all day long. After listening to Xiao Lin's words, Xiao Zhang was silent.
Ten years later, Xiao Zhang got married and had a stable job. Xiao Zhang, who gave birth at the age of 28, has a clear plan for the future and knows how to raise and educate children scientifically. From here we can see that the gap between "18-year-old baby" and "28-year-old baby" is too obvious.
18-year-old and 28-year-old have children, and the life gap after 20 years is not generally large:
- There is a big gap in economic level and living conditions are different
The economic base determines the superstructure, and a standard and high-quality family life is generally based on a certain material base. Women who gave birth at the age of 18 married earlier, which means that they probably only received compulsory education, so they will run into obstacles everywhere in the society when looking for a job. Even if you find a job, it is mostly a dirty job with a low salary level. In addition, you have to raise children and family living expenses, so the life after 20 years of marriage can be seen. However, women who give birth at the age of 28 are very mature in thinking, have received higher education, have relatively stable jobs and good pay, so family life after twenty years must be of high quality.
- Spiritual gap
Premature marriage and premature childbirth, women become mothers without a clear understanding. In the future life, they must learn not only how to live but also how to take care of their children. If they do not have rich life experience, they must help their children deal with it. life trivia. Over time, women's thinking has gradually become rigid and narrow. Women who marry late and have children later are more mature in thinking, have a deep understanding, and know how to educate their children.
Regardless of whether it is from the perspective of women themselves or the education and development of children in the future, it is recommended that women wait until their bodies and minds have matured before considering marriage and having children. There are many disadvantages to getting married and having children too early.