The photo of the mother and daughter having dinner in the service area has attracted heated discussions, and netizens have a lot of discussion: worry about the future of the child
Almost every parent loves their baby as a "Pearl of the Palm", but sometimes this love is too heavy, and it is easy to become a stumbling block that prevents the child from "growing up" forever.
The photo of the mother and daughter having dinner in the service area has sparked heated discussions. Netizens: This child is ''wasted'' by the parents
The photo of a mother and daughter having dinner on the Internet has attracted the attention of many netizens and sparked heated discussions. It can be seen from the photos that the mother and daughter came to the service area to eat. This is a very normal thing, but the highlight of the photo is what the mother and daughter eat.
As long as you look carefully, you can find that there is a huge difference between the food that Bao Ma eats and the food that her daughter eats: Bao Ma eats a simple bowl of instant noodles; Bowl of hot soup.
It can be seen that Bao's mother chose a bowl of instant noodles to fill her stomach for her daughter to eat more and to save money. After all, when my daughter is growing up, it is normal to eat some nutritious food.
This treasure mother was eating instant noodles seriously, but she looked at her daughter and found that her daughter was playing with her mobile phone obsessively, and didn't care about eating.
In order to ensure that her daughter could eat while it was hot, Mother Bao began to feed the baby. The daughter habitually opened her mouth to eat when she saw the food fed by her mother, but she still played with the mobile phone in her hand, her eyes never leaving the screen of the mobile phone. Bao's mother did not urge or scold her daughter throughout the whole process, and the movements of the mother and daughter were so proficient that they would be staged every day.
Passers-by took this group of photos after seeing them and shared them on the Internet. Netizens commented after seeing the photos:
Netizen 1: Worried about the future of the child.
Netizen 2: This child has been "wasted" by his parents.
Netizen 3: It's too much for this mother to do this.
Parents dote on their children too much, what is the adverse effect on their growth?
1. No sense of gratitude
If you pamper your child too much like the mother in the photo, it is easy to cause the child to have no sense of gratitude. A child who readily accepts kindness from others and takes it for granted can become selfish, let alone giving.
2. Can't learn to be independent
The little girl in the photo is obviously old enough to eat by herself, but her mother still feeds her. Parents blindly help their children to do what they are capable of doing, which can easily lead to children not being able to learn to be independent.
When parents love their children, they must grasp these proprieties
1. Let children understand "equality"
No matter how old their children are, parents are obliged to let their children understand what "equality" is, and it is best to use practical actions to tell them what equality is. For example, don't treat people differently when eating. It doesn't mean that children should eat the best and parents should only eat the worst.
2. Let go at the right time
If the child's ability has reached the level where he can rely on himself, parents should let go in time and let them complete one thing by their own ability. Parents don't have to worry too much about their children failing to learn or getting hurt on the way to learning, because growth is something children must experience when they grow up, but they must first ensure their safety.
word to parents
There is no conflict between loving children and letting them learn to be independent. In other words, loving children must be done in the right way. Don't spoil them blindly, but guide and educate them from every detail of life.