The photo of the mother and daughter eating in the service area has attracted heated discussions, and netizens have been discussing: worrying about the future of the child
Almost every parent will love their baby as a ''palm'', but sometimes this love is too heavy, and it can easily become a stumbling block for the child to never ''grow up''.
The photo of the mother and daughter eating in the service area has caused heated discussions. Netizens: This child was raised by the parents and was ''wasted''
A photo of a mother and daughter eating on the Internet has attracted the attention of many netizens and sparked heated discussions. It can be seen from the photo that the mother and daughter came to the service area for dinner. This is a normal thing, but the highlight of the photo is what the mother and daughter ate.
As long as you look carefully, you can find that there is a world of difference between what Bao's mother eats and what her daughter eats: Bao's mother eats a simple bowl of instant noodles; while her daughter eats rich meals, and a Bowl of hot soup.
It can be seen that Bao Mom chose a bowl of instant noodles to fill her stomach for her daughter to eat richly and to save money. After all, when my daughter is growing, it is normal to eat nutritious food.
This treasure mother was eating instant noodles seriously, but she looked at her daughter and found that her daughter was playing with her mobile phone fascinatedly, and did not care about eating.
In order to ensure that her daughter can eat while it's hot, Bao's mother started feeding the baby. The daughter habitually opened her mouth to eat the food fed by her mother, but still played with the mobile phone in her hand, her eyes never leaving the mobile phone screen. The mother did not urge or scold her daughter throughout the whole process, and the movements of the mother and daughter were so proficient that they would be staged every day.
Passers-by took this set of photos after seeing it and shared it on the Internet. After seeing the photos, netizens talked a lot:
Netizen 1: Worrying about the future of the child.
Netizen 2: This child has been raised by the parents and has been abandoned.
Netizen 3: It's a bit too much for this mother to do this.
Parents dote on their children too much, what are the adverse effects on the growth of the children?
1. No sense of gratitude
If you dote on the child too much like the mother in the photo, it will easily cause the child to have no sense of gratitude. Children who readily accept and take for granted that others treat them well can become selfish, let alone giving.
2. Can't learn to be independent
The little girl in the photo is obviously old enough to eat by herself, but her mother still feeds her. Parents blindly helping their children do what they can do can easily lead to children not learning to be independent.
Parents love their children, they must grasp these proportions
1. Let children understand ''equality''
No matter how old a child is, parents are obliged to let their children understand what is meant by ''equality'', and it is best to use practical actions to tell them what equality is. For example, don't treat differently when you eat, it doesn't mean that children should eat the best, and parents can only eat the poor.
2. Let go at the right time
If the child's ability has reached a level where they can rely on themselves, parents should let go at the right time and let them do something on their own. Parents don't have to worry too much about whether their children will learn or be hurt in the process of learning, because growth is inevitable for children to experience when they grow up, but they must first ensure their safety.
word to parents
There is no conflict between loving children and letting them learn to be independent. In other words, loving children must be loved in the right way, not blindly coddling, but guiding and educating children from every bit of life.