On the subway, this mother’s behavior attracted angry praise from netizens: This is the most advanced way to show off wealth
I believe that all parents hope that when their children are born, they will become a generous and well-mannered child. But sometimes things backfire, and some children unknowingly grow into "bear children" during the growth process. A child is born a blank slate, if it becomes more and more "bear", should we as parents reflect on ourselves?
On the subway, this mother’s behavior attracted angry praise from netizens: This is the most advanced way to show off wealth
The actions of this mother on the subway may give parents some inspiration to discipline their own "bear children". On this day, a mother took her child to take the subway. Maybe the journey was a bit far, and the child fell asleep in the mother's arms without knowing it. Fortunately, there were no one around, and the child could sleep more comfortably with his feet on the seat .
Considering that other passengers had to sit on the seat, the mother used a hat to pad the child's feet to prevent the dirt from the child's feet from falling on the seat. This scene happened to be photographed by a netizen. This mother's careful behavior attracted angry praise from netizens : " This is the highest level of showing off wealth . Good morals are more valuable than any money." ''The child raised by such a mother will definitely not be a''bear child'' in the future.
Coincidentally, there is not only one such mother. There was a mother who had a naughty child in her arms, always swaying her feet and bumping into the surrounding passengers. The passengers were a little dissatisfied. The mother silently supported the child's feet with her hands, trying not to cause trouble to those around her. Meeting such parents who are considerate of others, the dissatisfaction of the passengers around must have dissipated.
It is not terrible for a child to cause trouble to others. The terrible thing is that the parents use "he is still a child, what do you care about" as an excuse to protect the child, and do not feel that their child has any fault. Such parents will only be "bear parents" in the eyes of others, and children will be disgusting "bear children".
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Children often fall asleep and fight in the car, sometimes causing inconvenience to those around them. At this time, the attitude of parents is very important.
As a parent, education should be educated, apology should be apologized, and try not to cause trouble to irrelevant people, so as to set a good example for children, so as not to raise children into "bear children" that everyone hates.
How to raise educated children?
1. Let the children learn to obey the order
As the saying goes, there is no rule without rules. When children leave the house, they should abide by the social order like adults, such as not fighting in public places, not defecating indiscriminately, etc. If the child violates the order, the parents must correct it in time, and do not indulge the child for various reasons.
2. Teach children basic etiquette
A well-educated person must be a polite person. From the time a child can speak, parents should teach him basic etiquette, such as personal etiquette, social etiquette, table manners, etc. A well-mannered child is more likable than a child who is mischievous and troublesome all day long.
3. Parents should lead by example
Whether children are educated or not, the final decision is still with the parents who get along with them day and night. If the child's parent is a parent who often swears, is greedy for petty gain, likes to jump in line, and makes a lot of noise in public, how can the child shape himself? And the mother in the article can still think about others when the child is asleep. Presumably the child will also be a careful and kind person in the future.