On the subway, this mother's actions attracted angry praise from netizens: This is the most advanced way to show off wealth
I believe that when parents give birth to their children, they all hope that they can become generous and polite children. But sometimes things backfire, and some children grow up unknowingly into ''bear children'' in the process of growing up. Children are born with a blank sheet of paper. If they become more and more ''bears'', should we as parents reflect on ourselves?
On the subway, this mother's actions attracted angry praise from netizens: This is the most advanced way to show off wealth
The mother's actions on the subway may inspire parents to discipline their ''bear children''. On this day, a mother took her child on the subway. Maybe the journey was a little long, and the child fell asleep in his mother's arms. Fortunately, there were people around, so the child could put his feet on the seat to sleep more comfortably. .
Considering that other passengers still have to sit on the seat, the mother put a hat on the child's feet to prevent the dirt from the child's feet from falling on the seat. This scene happened to be photographed by a netizen. The mother's careful actions attracted angry praise from netizens : '' This is the most advanced way to show off wealth , and good morals are more valuable than any money. ''The child raised by such a mother will definitely not be a ''bear child'' in the future.
Coincidentally, there is not only one such mother. A child in a mother's arms was naughty and always swayed his feet to touch the surrounding passengers, and the passengers were a little dissatisfied. The mother silently supported the child's feet with her hands, trying not to cause trouble to those around her. The dissatisfaction of the surrounding passengers must have vanished when they met such a considerate parent.
It's not scary for a child to cause trouble to others. What's scary is that parents use "he is still a child, what do you care about" as an excuse to protect the child and do not feel that there is anything wrong with their child. Such parents will only be seen as ''bear parents'' in the eyes of others, and their children are disgusting ''bear children''.
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Children often fall asleep and play in the car, sometimes causing inconvenience to the people around them. At this time, the attitude of parents is very important.
As a parent, education should be taught, apology should be apologized, try not to cause trouble to irrelevant people, in order to set a good example for children, and not to raise children to be ''bear children'' that adults hate.
How to raise educated children?
1. Let the children learn to obey the order
As the saying goes, without rules, a circle cannot be formed. When children go out of the house, they should abide by the social order like adults, such as not making trouble in public places, not urinating anywhere, etc. If the child violates the order, the parents must correct it in time, and do not condone the child for various reasons.
2. Teach children basic etiquette
An educated person must be a polite person. From the moment a child can speak, parents should teach him basic etiquette, such as personal etiquette, social etiquette, table etiquette, etc. A well-mannered child is more likeable than a child who is messing around all day.
3. Parents should lead by example
Whether the child is educated or not, the final decision rests with the parents who get along with them day and night. If the parent of the child is a parent who often swears, loves petty cheap, likes to jump in line, and makes a lot of noise in public, how can the child shape himself? And the mother in the text can still think about others when the child is asleep. Presumably the child will also be a careful and kind person in the future.