'Long time to see you', the son wanted to buy a toy, the father acted like a baby on the spot, son: get up, I won't buy it
But there are few children who don't like toys. In this regard, parents are also very troubled. Every time they take their children to the street, they have to fight wits and courage. Children want to buy toys when they see them.
Many parents can't do anything about the child crying to buy toys, but there is a father who solved the problem with only one trick.
''Long time to see'', the son wanted to buy a toy, and the father rolled on the spot
The scene of "Wonderful Flower" appeared in a Japanese life research variety show. In the show, the child and his father came to a toy supermarket.
Although he brought the baby to the supermarket according to the program group's plan, the father had a reluctant expression on his face, but the son had a good time shopping, and soon fell in love with a toy.
The child asked his father to buy it for himself, but the father did not agree, and the child did not give up and continued to ask for it.
High energy ahead
If it is a normal situation, the children will definitely lie on the ground and roll and cry when they see the parents not eating oil and salt, but this is not the same for the father and son.
Before the child could throw a tantrum, the father lay down and rolled on the ground, swaying his body on the spot and acting like a baby: "No, don't buy toys, I won't get up if you want to buy toys!" ''
The child obviously didn't expect his father to be able to make such a coquettish operation, and he was stunned at the time. After the child reacted, he hurried forward and wanted to pull his father up, but his father didn't buy it.
The son really had no choice but to compromise, and said helplessly to his father: "Get up quickly, I won't buy it." ''
After the father and son went home, the father asked his son if he still wanted the toy. The son said that although he wanted it, his father was like that at the time, and he just wanted him to leave quickly.
I have to say that what this father did was really "walk the way of the child, leaving the child with nowhere to go".
How do parents deal with the situation where their children play tricks and cheat to buy toys?
1. Make an appointment in advance and set a bottom line
Before going out, parents can make an agreement with the child how much money he has at his disposal this time, and when the child wants to buy a toy, tell him: "The money for this toy will be deducted from your small wallet. If it is finished, you will not be able to buy other things later, are you sure you want to buy it? ''
Parents must strictly abide by the good agreement and the bottom line established. If they always break the rules set by themselves, then the parents will not have authority in what they say in the future, and the children will not take it seriously.
2. Keep calm no matter how the child makes trouble
Some parents see their children crying and feeling irritable, so they will yell at them in public, which hurts their children's self-esteem; Crying and threatening parents.
In the face of children crying and crying, parents should keep calm, try to divert the children's attention, and communicate with them after they calm down.
Parenting message
After all, children are children at heart, love to play, and have no self-control. It is precisely because they are naive and naughty that they need parental education and guidance. Therefore, parents may wish to be more patient and caring, less impatient and complaining when raising their children, and irrigate and nurture these young saplings so that they can thrive.