Parents' unhealed wounds manifest through their children's problems.

A man who hates his parents is also hated by his children. A person who has lost his mother's love since childhood has long been separated from his child.

People who have been roughed by their parents, continue to be rough with their children... It seems that these are not just accidents.

The same trauma is passed on in different ways. Even before a child is born, parents' emotions and feelings begin to affect fetal growth and development.

"Those are things I went through as a kid. My kid doesn't know anything. How could it affect him?"

Looking at those confused parents, I often invite them to discover themselves deeply, to explore their own experiences and inner feelings, with a curious heart.

The first step in healing is to identify the pain and confusion you are experiencing in your life, both mental and physical. From these clues, the earliest source, the earliest suffering can be traced.

In a sense, the difficulties, illnesses, confusions, and setbacks we encounter in real life are actually calling us to heal our spiritual wounds.

We let them make themselves aware and go to the source to solve the pain of our first child.

One way is to experience that trauma again, only this time with the "adult consciousness" instead of the "child consciousness".

When we go through that trauma again, we can find our inner longing because of the sublimation of the pain, which leads us to discover the meaning and purpose of our life.

I would also like to say a few words to children who have experienced or are experiencing confusion.

Still, we can't blame our parents for these things. Our parents can't teach us what they don't know.

If your parents don't know how to love yourself, they can't possibly know how to teach you to love yourself.

They just try their best to teach the kids what they learned as children.

If you want to know more about your parents, you need to hear more about their childhood; if you listen with love, you will know where their fears and strictness come from.

These people who "killed you" have the same fear and terror as you.

From childhood we are dependent on our parents and follow them wholeheartedly, learning their set of beliefs and rules.

When we grow up and encounter all kinds of experiences, we will apply what we have learned from our parents to our own life and implement it continuously and repeatedly.

When we encounter difficulties and pain, it is time for us to go back to the source to heal.

So, life is beautiful, everything is perfect, there is always love in the story, and there is always a bright ending.