The couple gave birth to 11 children in 15 years, saying that 'saving money is worse than saving people', the child's ending is embarrassing
For ordinary families, raising two children is under enormous pressure, so this is the reason why many people delay in wanting to have a second child. But some couples don't think so. They have given birth to many children, even as many as 11.
Having had 11 children in 15 years, I firmly believe that "saving money is worse than saving people", but when the child grows up, the husband and wife are disappointed
He Hong and Zhang Xingzi, who live deep in the mountains of Sichuan, can be said to be known to everyone in the local area. The husband and wife have given birth to 11 children in 15 years, but they are unable to educate these children, and often disturb the village. The family's reputation in the village is not good.
With more and more children at home, Zhang Xingzi couldn't bear the pressure of taking care of the children. She only had an elementary school education and advised her husband: Don't give birth, don't give birth. Husband He Hong saw his wife's attitude and scolded her: ''What do you know? Saving money is worse than saving people. As long as one of these children has a future, he can change the family. ''
In this way, starting in 1996, the couple gave birth to 11 children in 15 years, and the eleventh child had to be given away because he could not support them. But when the children grew up, the couple was disappointed.
The sensible eldest is a daughter, because one day she couldn't bear everything in the family, she ran away from home like crazy , and has never heard from her; the second child has excellent academic performance, but because the family can't afford the tuition, she has to drop out of school at home ;
The fourth child was stabbed in a fight with others at school. Since then , his temperament has changed greatly , and he stays at home all day to bully his younger siblings ; The 80-year-old was smashed with blood , and his father was sentenced to life in prison for intentional homicide.
This family, for Zhang Xingzi, is really ''hard mode'', but it's too late. Having given birth to so many children over so many years, but not properly educated, the tragic ending is diametrically opposite to the good life that the husband and wife once hoped for, which is really embarrassing.
Why did this couple have 11 children?
In remote mountain villages, the knowledge of contraception has not been popularized. He Hong and Zhang Xingzi did not know contraception. Although they tried to get on the ring during the period, they fell off due to too many births. In addition, the husband's thinking is backward, and the poorer he is, the more the government pays a fine, the two of them can't get it. The so-called ''bare feet are not afraid of wearing shoes'' will give birth to so many children.
What are the possible consequences of having children without teaching them?
1. The quality of the child is low
There is a saying in the Three Character Classic: raising or not teaching is the fault of the father. When you give birth to a child, as a parent, you must not only raise them as adults, but also educate them to have good qualities. If only children are born without education, parents have a great responsibility, and children cannot have good character and literacy.
2. Bring trouble to society
Looking at the low-quality people in the society, they throw garbage everywhere, line up and cut in line, they fight, steal chickens and dogs, and obey people's money... They are low-quality people without knowing it, and they bring trouble and safety hazards to society and others. These things It has nothing to do with family education.
3. Will not repay parents
Parents raise their children mostly because they want their children to be by their side to take care of them when they are old. But if you don't educate your children, let them know how to be polite and honest, let them be grateful to their parents, and be a hardworking person, what will the children give back to their parents when they grow up?