'Tongyan Dad' became popular, netizens mistakenly thought it was the child's brother, Baoma: It's really my husband
In most people's cognition, the image of a father should be mature and stable. In terms of appearance, it may even be unshaven and have a beer belly. I thought that a father who looks like a brother only exists in romance novels, but the following baby dad has refreshed our cognition.
''Tongyan Dad'' became popular, netizens mistakenly thought it was the child's brother, Bao Mom: It's really my husband
A mother shared a photo of her two favorite ''men'' on social media. It turned out that one of the photos was her lover and the other was her son. However, this warm photo was questioned by netizens , because in the photos shared by Bao Ma, Bao Dad was too young, and those who didn't know it thought it was a brother in the photo.
In this regard, Bao Ma was also very helpless . She admitted ''this is really my husband'', saying that this is not the first time that father and son have been mistaken for brothers. Although she and Bao Dad are both born in the 90s, Bao Dad's appearance seems to stay at the age of 18, like a high school student; and after she gave birth to a child, her figure began to lose shape, her complexion began to darken, and she looked older than her actual age. bigger.
Parents who are too young can indeed lead to certain misunderstandings in some occasions, but it is a good thing for parents to be young.
What are the benefits of having young parents?
1. Low birth risk
Pregnant mothers at the appropriate age have a relatively high number and quality of eggs, embryos can develop well, and the risk of miscarriage is much lower. Having a baby at the right age means that pregnant mothers do not face as many risks as older mothers, and their bodies recover faster.
2. More energy
Young parents have more stamina and energy, and they are better able to cope with the crying and tossing of their children. In contrast, parents in their 30s and 40s will appear to be more than enough when they take care of their children. When children grow up a little, it will be difficult for them to spare time and energy to take their children to see the rich world and experience various activities.
3. Shortening the generation gap
Young parents feel less distance from their children, making it easier to communicate. They can develop the same interests and hobbies as the child, which makes it easier to develop a close relationship with the child. On the premise that children love and trust their parents, they will take the initiative to communicate with their parents, and the generation gap between parents and children will naturally shorten.
Fourth, the age of giving birth to a second child is more appropriate
If parents have their first child in the early stage of the appropriate age, and have not crossed the 30-year-old mark in three or five years, it will be more appropriate to have a second child at this time. On the one hand, the two have more energy to take care of them; on the other hand, if there is help from the older generation, the older generation is still stronger at this time, and the parent's parenting pressure is less. In addition, when two children are not too different in age, their relationship is also closer.
Be responsible for yourself and your family
Whether giving birth earlier or later, parents must learn to be responsible for themselves and their families. It is not recommended that mothers have children when they are not physically fit, and fathers should not force mothers to have children at the current stage when the family's economic conditions are very poor. In addition, parents do not need to pursue the timing of childbirth too much, it is the most important to find the right parenting method.