60-year-old mother-in-law: Finally a decent ''exit'' son's family, this method is worth learning from everyone

Introduction

As a parent, there is always an inexhaustible concern for the child. Even if the child organizes a family, many parents still interfere excessively with the child's life and can't let go of the child, but is this really good?

As a parent, we must know how to properly withdraw from the child's family when the child grows up. There is such a mother-in-law who knows how to quit her son's family with dignity after her son organizes a family. This method is worth learning from everyone.

case

Auntie Lin in the community is a very optimistic and cheerful old man, and her popularity is also very good at ordinary times. Recently, Auntie Lin's son got a wife. She distributed candy to everyone, and everyone congratulated Auntie Lin. Some old people said to Aunt Lin: "When you have a daughter-in-law, you must let her know how to serve you, so that you can have a good life, and you have to do your work for her. ''

Some old people also said to Aunt Lin: ''The daughter-in-law is here, you have to set up rules for her, let her know how powerful you are, and don't talk too much, otherwise you will be sad in the future. ''... Everyone urged Auntie Lin to find a way to suppress her daughter-in-law and not let her ''ride'' on her head.

After hearing this, 60-year-old Aunt Lin smiled and said to everyone: "My son organizes a family, and I finally quit my son's family decently. I will not interfere with their young couple's affairs. After growing up, withdraw gracefully, instead of laboriously controlling the child, the child has a child's family and life. '' After listening to Aunt Lin's words, everyone fell silent. Afterwards, they all felt that what Aunt Lin said was very reasonable, and they all agreed.

Although the child has married and established a career, many parents still interfere excessively with their children's lives and are reluctant to let go of their children. What would be the impact of such behavior?

analyze

1. What are the effects of parents' excessive interference in their children's lives?

1. Affect the harmony between husband and wife

After their children get married, many parents still interfere excessively with their children's lives and are reluctant to let their children out of their control.

No matter what happens, parents will want to get involved. Over-interference of parents will only affect the harmony between husband and wife. Many broken families are caused by excessive interference of parents.

2. Disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always had a very delicate relationship. The two became a family because of the same man. If the mother-in-law intervenes excessively in the affairs of the young couple and wants to control the daughter-in-law while controlling the son, so that everyone obeys her, in the end, only disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will arise and affect the harmony of the family.

3. Affects happiness

After the children get married and start a business, the parents interfere excessively with the children's family, do not know how to let go of the children, and leave the children's family gracefully. Such behavior of parents will affect the happiness of family members, and sons will become in a dilemma under the interference of parents.

The 60-year-old mother-in-law in the case said: I finally quit my son's family decently. This mother-in-law's approach is worthy of praise, and this method is worth learning from everyone.

2. After the child starts a family and establishes a business, parents should know how to "exit" the child's family decently

1. Leave free space for children

The excessive interference of parents will not only easily raise a giant baby who is "not growing up", but also affect the feelings of young couples. As a parent, you must know how to leave your child's family dignifiedly and leave free space for your children after they start a family and a business, so that they can live a happy life.

2. Take control of yourself

Although in the eyes of many parents, even if a child has a family and a career, he is still a child and has not grown up. But children have their own families, and as parents, they must hold back their desire for control, and don’t let their desire to control ruin their children’s happiness. We need to know how to quit our children's family dignifiedly and be an enlightened parent in order to make our children happy.

Summarize

Being a parent is a practice, and parents and children are a journey that goes further and further away. As a parent, we must understand that after the child gets married and establishes a business, it is the true expression of loving the child to leave the child's family dignifiedly.