The grandmother brought the baby home for 3 years, and the baby does not let go. Who can understand the sadness of the grandmother with the baby
In today's fast-paced life, many young people choose to go out to work in order to make a living. They can't take care of having a child, so they can only leave the child to their grandmother or grandmother. Therefore, the elderly have become the main force in taking care of the children. It's an effort.
Grandma decided to go home after taking care of her little grandson for three years.
College classmate Xiaomi, despite her family's opposition after graduation, resolutely married her college boyfriend. Since her boyfriend is from other places, her family always disagreed, but no matter how her family stopped her, Xiaomi still married her college boyfriend.
After the marriage, the two chose to stay in the city where they went to school. They have been familiar with this place for four years in college. Xiaomi and her husband were going to start from scratch here, but before their careers started, Xiaomi became pregnant.
Soon Xiaomi gave birth to a son, but in the big city, the two had no energy to take care of the child, and the mother-in-law's house was not here. After discussing with her husband, Xiaomi had to send the child to her grandmother's house in the next city. The two can go back and have a look when they have time.
It took three years for my grandmother to take over. The grandson went from a baby in the swaddle to a living little person. The hardships that the grandmother has put in can not be explained in a sentence or two, and the old couple are also used to the little grandson. The noisy and noisy all day long, and the existence of the little grandson also added a lot of fun to the old couple.
But seeing that the grandson is 3 years old, after two years of struggle, Xiaomi and her husband are in good economic conditions, so they decided to take their son back to their side and prepare to go to kindergarten.
When Xiaomi and her husband picked up their children, the scene where the grandmother and grandson hugged and were inseparable was not only a bit sad to watch.
The child has become the spiritual sustenance of the old man. In order to make the girl's life better, when the old man is needed, the old man has an obligation. But after all, the child still has to go back to the parents. Even if he is reluctant, he must finally let go.
There should be many elderly people around us to help their children to take care of their children, as the saying goes: Love the house and the house. The elderly are willing to give up the time to enjoy life and help their children to take care of their children. Therefore, as children, we must also be grateful to the elderly. Even if there are some frictions in life because of the children, we must learn to forgive the elderly.
As a child, it is not easy to understand the elderly helping to take care of children
1: The elderly have limited energy
After all, the elderly are willing to help take care of children, and young people should be grateful. When the elderly are old , their hands and feet are sometimes inconvenient, and taking care of children is a physical task. There are some things in life that should be turned a blind eye. Don't be so serious and understand each other. If there is no elderly to help us take care of the children, how can young people have the time and energy to throw down their own careers, and how can they feel the sense of accomplishment!
2: Differences in educational philosophy
The thinking of the old people in that era may not keep up with the progress of the current era, and there will be some differences in educating children, but I believe that the starting point is for the good of children.
Young people should be considerate of the elderly . Once a person’s thoughts are formed, it is not so easy to change. The elderly also want to educate their grandchildren well, but the method may be inappropriate. Children should understand the elderly and compare their hearts . How do you treat them now? Your own elderly, children can see in the eyes, you can be the child's learning object in the future.
3: Different ways of bringing up
Elderly people who bring their children will apply some of their so-called "experiences" to their children, and young people pay attention to scientific parenting. At this time, they will conflict with the elderly.
As a child, you must look at the problem from the perspective of the elderly. Some things are difficult to talk about by yourself, but you can use a third party. I believe that as long as the child is good, the elderly must be willing to pay. You can enroll the child in an early education class. Going to play can not only reduce the burden of the elderly, but also allow the elderly to learn some parenting knowledge, and the elderly can gradually learn to raise children scientifically.
The elderly help their children to take care of their children out of love for their children, and they also want to help their children relieve the pressure of life, but the children cannot take the elderly’s contribution for granted. They should be grateful to the elderly for their love and concern for their children, and be filial to the elderly. , let love flow to each other.