The baby looked at the 'fried chicken legs' at the next table and coveted, but the grandmother's persuasion was fruitless, and one sentence annoyed the guests at the next table
Some parents always use frightening and threatening words to treat their children when they do not want their children to do something. For example, when taking children out, some children will show envious expressions when they see others eating, which is very embarrassing for their parents.
The baby looked at the "fried chicken legs" at the next table and coveted, but the grandmother's persuasion was fruitless, and one sentence annoyed the guests at the next table
There is a child named Cheng Cheng, who goes shopping with his mother and grandma in the mall on weekends. By the middle of the afternoon, the child is probably a little hungry. When he sees a fried chicken restaurant, Cheng Cheng really wants to go, but grandma thinks fried chicken is unhealthy and doesn't want to. Take the child in to eat, but the little man may really be attracted by the fragrance, and he unconsciously sits next to him, looking at the chicken nuggets in the other's hand, swallowing uncontrollable saliva, who can stand it?
At this time, the younger sister on the opposite side took the chicken thigh and asked, "Do you want to eat it? Let's eat this for you." While talking, she handed it to the child. It became what she wanted to pick up, but she was pulled back by the grandmother and returned. Angrily, he said, "Is this kind of unhealthy food eaten by humans?" He stared at Aunt Liang with hunger, seeing that he couldn't eat fried chicken, Cheng Cheng burst into tears.
At this time, Xiao Guliang's parents were unhappy and said, "You don't give your children to eat, why do you say that this food is not for human consumption, and it is too rude." This attracted the attention of the surrounding diners, and they all accused grandma of it. The behavior is wrong. It is clear at a glance who is right and who is wrong. The old man pulled the child away, not only did not realize his own mistake, but kept complaining about others, saying things like "uneducated" and "don't know how to respect the elderly", many onlookers watched. People bluntly said: This child is ruined!
The harm of this kind of coaxing education is unimaginable. Some parents often say: "This is poisonous", "That is unhealthy", "The nose is getting longer", "Watching too much TV will make the eyes go blind" to deceive their children. These parents obviously do not understand among the hazards.
- Teach children to lie
Parents often deceive their children. The child is ignorant and thinks it is true. When he grows up, he will naturally feel that it is false. The parents will lie, and the child will also think that lying is desirable and will naturally imitate. Over time, the child will It will develop a habit of lying, and even hide and avoid mistakes for their own mistakes.
- Let the child be hated by others
Take the above grandma for example, she obviously refused to buy it, and said that the food is not for human consumption. This kind of unconscious education, what other people will think, it will also label the child as "low quality", and it will not be good for your child. Natural disgust. If one day your child is lost and needs help from a stranger, others will not lend a helping hand, pretending not to know, what will you do then.
- Make children stop trusting their parents
When we were young, we must have heard the story of "the wolf is coming". The little boy kept deceiving others in order to win the sympathy of others. In the end, the wolf really came and no one came to help him. Not only did he eat up the sheep, but he also suffered from it. learned a lesson. Lies will be exposed sooner or later. At that time, parents will lose face, they will no longer be able to establish an image in front of their children, and children will no longer trust their parents.
- It will leave a psychological shadow on the child
A friend of mine has the habit of turning on the lights at night. Even people in their thirties can’t get rid of this habit, but this problem is not inborn. , and said: "If you are not sleeping, the big bad wolf will come to catch you." After coming down many times, he was particularly afraid of the dark, and he never dared to walk alone at night, leaving a deep psychological shadow that could not be erased for many years. go.
In view of the hazards listed above, parents must be cautious in their words and deeds when educating their children, think twice, and don’t use lies to curb their children’s desires. The side effects of deception will accompany the children for a lifetime, which is too much of a loss.
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