Women with these 3 'characteristics' are not suitable for having a second child, otherwise both adults and children will suffer

In recent years, with the gradual liberalization of the two-child policy, many families have also ushered in a new little life—two treasures. What followed was not only the laughter and laughter of adults, but also all kinds of conflicts among family members.

Some mothers-in-law don't want to help take care of the second child, and some big treasures don't want to have a little brother or little sister at all, and they create conflicts by changing methods. These problems can worry the mothers. I originally thought of having Erbao as a companion to Dabao, but I never thought that there would be so many contradictions. It seems that Erbao is not what the mothers want to give birth to. Next, Xuan Xuan will lead you to see which mothers are not suitable for having a second baby!

over 35 years old

Under normal circumstances, the best reproductive age for women is 22 to 28 years old. If you want to have children, it is best to hurry up during this period, because beyond this age, the quality of eggs and physical conditions will decline, and the rate of fetal miscarriage will be rapid. Elevated, it is not good for the body of the child and the pregnant woman.

Especially for women over 45 years old, the rate of fetal malformation and miscarriage will be doubled, and then reluctantly giving birth can only be said to be irresponsible for the child.

Women with a previous cesarean section

If the pregnancy is placenta previa, and the placenta is attached to the scar of the uterus, dangerous placenta previa is likely to occur. The risk of placenta accreta is about 50%, which can lead to uncontrollable postpartum hemorrhage, hysterectomy, and even hysterectomy. life threatening. Women with a history of cesarean delivery are also at high risk for an "incisional pregnancy." This is a special part of ectopic pregnancy, which means that the embryo implants in the scar of the cesarean section incision in the lower part of the uterus. Generally speaking, the menopause is accompanied by irregular vaginal bleeding. Due to the weak muscle layer at the scar and the lack of contractility, the broken blood vessels during abortion or curettage cannot be closed naturally, resulting in fatal bleeding.

No one can help a mother with a baby

How hard it is to bring a child, experienced mothers know that if there is no one to help with the child, it is recommended not to have a second child. Don't feel that you have already had the experience of bringing a baby once, and it will be easier when you bring the second treasure. This is just your fantasy. Every child has different personalities and traits, and different ways of taking care of them. Bringing two babies together can absolutely paralyze the mother. Therefore, don't have a second child until no one can help you take care of the child.

Shortly after giving birth

It takes a lot of physical and mental energy for pregnant women to give birth, and it takes some time to recover after giving birth. If the mother wants to have a second child soon after the first child is born, her body has not fully recovered, her body cannot take it, and it is not conducive to the development of the fetus. Therefore, if you plan to have a second child, the mother who gave birth naturally should consider it after a year, and the mother who has a caesarean section needs to wait two years.