The daughter only writes 'mother's love' in her essay, and her father is angry: it must be written forcibly
It is said that a daughter is a caring little padded jacket for her parents, and she can always play the role of a caring little baby beside her parents, allowing them to enjoy the joy of being a parent. But there are exceptions, and not all padded jackets are intimate.
Daughter's composition only writes ''mother's love'', and jealousy makes father unrecognizable: father has no love?
There is a father who strongly complained about the harm done to him by the ''little jacket'' at home. It turned out that the father's daughter had just started elementary school, and the teacher assigned a composition to the child: write out the love of mother and father for him. After the father found out, he had a little expectation. He wanted to know what he looked like in his daughter's eyes. But when he saw the child's composition, he was stunned. The child's composition of more than 400 words did not mention ''daddy'' at all, and all praised his mother.
After Bao Dad saw it, he carried out a series of soul-tortures on the child: ''The house was bought by the mother alone? This house was raised by the mother alone? All the money is made by mom? I'm so pissed, I don't have any conscience at all..." "Seeing his father's frantic appearance, the child just drank yogurt calmly and answered a few ""yes"'.
Seeing the child's appearance, the father was so angry that he lost his mind. He angrily told his daughter: ''It must be written for me, where is my father's love. '' The little girl looked helpless and had to agree.
Netizens couldn't help laughing when they saw Dad's appearance, expressing their deep understanding. Children are raised by their parents, but many children only see their mother's love and cannot feel their father's implicit love. This is really a grievance for the father.
Why do many children only feel the love of their mothers?
First of all, under the influence of traditional Chinese concepts, men mostly play the role of "outside the master", and the task of taking care of children falls on women. Even in today's social development, the responsibility of taking care of children is mostly borne by women. Some mothers not only go out to work, but also take care of their children when they go home. Children are naturally closer to their mothers.
Furthermore, many families are ''widow-style marriages''. Men lie on the sofa and play with their mobile phones when they get home from work. Not to mention gratitude. In the eyes of the child, an impression will be formed: this family is all the work of the mother.
Finally, some fathers are more reserved, while mothers express their emotions more directly and are generally more gentle and considerate, so children will be closer to their mothers,
How to teach gratitude to children?
1. Let children start small
Children's understanding of gratitude is not something that can be cultivated by reasoning, but mainly depends on children's perceptions from life. Parents can try to get their children to say words such as ''Thank you'''''Good morning'''''Good night''. These words are often spoken, but rarely spoken to parents. Parents can teach their children to say to themselves, let the children realize that parents' feelings also need to be responded to.
2. Learn to show weakness in front of children
In line with the original intention of pampering children, many parents try to meet the requirements of their children as much as possible. Although this can give children enough sense of security, there are also many drawbacks. If things go on like this, children may enjoy all this for granted and think that parents are omnipotent. , Giving should be, and forget to thank parents. In communicating with children, parents do not have to play an omnipotent role all the time. It is necessary for children to understand that there are some things that parents cannot accomplish, and they need to do it themselves.
3. Parents should set an example
An experience of thanking others in front of a child is sometimes more useful than telling the child a hundred times of truth. Therefore, if you want your child to become a grateful person, parents must do so first. For example, in his spare time, he often visits his parents and expresses his gratitude to those who help, which makes it easier to educate children. The so-called preaching is worse than teaching by example, that is the truth.