Is the student's family ''poor'' or ''rich''? Why can the teacher see through it at a glance? can't hide at all
During school, the friendships between children are relatively innocent. Generally, they become friends because they play well, and will not affect the friendship between children due to external factors such as various family backgrounds.
Even so, for teachers, they can see at a glance the quality of students' families.
Noble schools also have poor students
Zhou Zhou works in an aristocratic school with a very expensive private school. Although this school is expensive, it is still very popular. Because the school's learning environment and teachers are well-known, children who go to this aristocratic school are generally well-known. The family is all good.
One day, a transfer student came to the school, and Zhou Zhou and other teachers started gossiping, thinking that the parents of this student should have a lot of background. But a senior teacher disagreed. She said: ''I feel that this child's family is ordinary. Compared with other students in the school, he is just a 'poor student'. ''
Zhou Zhou wondered, this school is so expensive, where are the students who come to this school so poor? And this senior teacher has never met the child's parents, how can he see it? The senior teacher said that in fact, the students' family background is rich or poor, which can basically be seen in the students. Generally, just by looking at these points, you can know how the child's family is.
From the following points, you can generally see how the student's family situation is:
- Children's clothing
We can feel the difference between ''poor students'' and ''rich students'' from our daily life. The clothes of students with better family conditions will be more trendy, and the proportion of brand-name goods will be higher. Parents will pay more attention to whether the clothes their children wear are comfortable and fashionable. And the clothes worn by children in ordinary families can be said to go back and forth with only a few pieces, and even if they wear old clothes from other people's homes, the clothes will also appear to be ill-fitting. Because parents in order to save family expenses, they will choose those clothes that are more durable and loose, and the clothes can continue to be worn when the child grows taller.
- The child's behavior
Children from wealthy families are generally more confident, and they will be more calm in the face of some important occasions, so they will be more cheerful and lively, and dare to take the initiative to talk to others. And children from poor families will have lower self-esteem. Compared with children from rich families, they will be more timid and less confident. They are also more introverted and less afraid to express themselves.
3. Children's extracurricular activities
Rich children usually go to more high-end places to play, such as playgrounds, Disney, etc., toys are also more expensive, and they rarely do housework.
And poor children may not have been to an amusement park once. When they come home from school, they have to help their parents with household chores, and the number of toys is relatively small.
Parents should pay more attention to cultivating the inner qualities of their children
- Make your child a confident person
Some parents from ordinary families will always tell their children where they are not as good as others. Children grow up in this environment and generally have less self-confidence in character. On the other hand, the parents of rich families may have been indulging their children, making them become arrogant people. No matter what the family background is, parents should tell and teach their children to be a confident person and to abandon arrogance and inferiority.
- Let children become self-motivated
Whether it is a child of a rich family or a child of a poor family, they should be motivated. Otherwise, children from rich families may not work hard because they think their parents are rich; while children from poor families may feel that no matter how hard they work, they can't change their destiny. Therefore, they may eventually become mediocre people. Parents should tell them the necessity of hard work. After all, a motivated life is meaningful.
In any case, various factors should not be allowed to destroy the innocent world of children. It is necessary for parents and teachers to maintain the innocence of children and let children grow up and learn in a healthy and happy environment.