Marrying the right person or not, on the first night after giving birth, you can see that these things can only be done with the help of the husband
As the saying goes: the mother and the child are separated, and the living tree is peeled.
Pregnant mothers are pregnant for ten months, and the separation process of childbirth requires not only physical pain, but also psychological struggle.
In life, the elderly often say: "Having a child and having a child, the child is born means that you are done." In fact, this sentence only emphasizes the physical pain of the pregnant mother, ignoring the psychological changes of the mother after giving birth.
This psychological struggle is more likely to occur on the first night of a mother's delivery.
Mothers who have just given birth are often more sensitive to the surrounding environment and the performance of people around them due to the feeling of weakness and sudden changes in identity brought about by childbirth.
Some mothers in life called this night with laughter: the first night of chilling.
This is because after giving birth, many dads focus on their children. In fact, compared to the much-anticipated baby, the father should turn his attention to the hard-working mother, especially these "shy" things. The husband's reaction can reflect whether the mother is married to the right person.
On the first night of childbirth, the baby father disappeared, and the mother who gave birth cried with regret
Xiaoyun just gave birth to a baby boy safely some time ago, and her 40-week pregnancy has tortured this weak girl in the south of the Yangtze River.
Because of her constitution, Xiaoyun's pregnancy will have a more intense series of reactions than normal pregnant mothers.
Morning sickness and vomiting to the point of loss of appetite, as the body's hormones lead to more intense weight changes.
Xiaoyun once thought of giving up, but when she saw her husband's expectations for the child, Xiaoyun felt that even if she worked harder, she would give birth to the child.
The day of giving birth arrived. After two hours of labor, Xiaoyun finally gave birth to a baby boy.
After the delivery, Xiaoyun fell into a deep sleep due to her physical exhaustion. It was not until at night that Xiaoyun was woken up by her mother. After drinking a few sips of soup, Xiaoyun noticed that her husband was not by her side, only her mother was with her. on.
When she heard from her mother that her husband had left the hospital early in the afternoon to celebrate the birth of her son, Xiaoyun suddenly felt a burst of sadness in her heart. The physical discomfort, weakness and psychological disappointment made Xiaoyun cry.
What problems will the mothers who give birth on the first night after giving birth encounter
- Physical pain
Both vaginal births and caesarean sections experience severe physical pain on the first night after delivery.
For mothers who give birth naturally, experiencing the pain of childbirth does not mean the end of the pain. According to many mothers who give birth naturally, after a natural birth, there will be persistent pain on the night after the birth.
This kind of pain has a particularly obvious impact on mothers who have had a caesarean section. After the effect of the anesthetic has passed, the pain of the incision will gradually appear, and the wound at the suture will be unbearable for many mothers.
- Psychological anxiety
Mothers who have finished giving birth, especially mothers with their first child, have achieved the first change of identity. At this time, mothers often feel more uneasy in their hearts.
In the face of this kind of anxiety, the husband is the most able to help the mother relieve the anxiety.
- The inconvenience of going to the toilet
The most shy problem postpartum mothers encounter is going to the toilet.
For natural delivery mothers, the birth of a child will affect the mother's normal toileting to a certain extent due to the consumption of physical strength during delivery and the particularity of the body structure.
For caesarean section mothers, the doctor's lateral cutting behavior may damage the urethral nerve, causing the mother to frequently go to the toilet on the first night after delivery.
At this time, the husband's patient companionship can reduce the inner tension of the mother who calls the nurse to accompany her late at night.
What other "shy" things can a husband do? You can tell at a glance if he is married or not
- Body massage
After giving birth, mothers often sweat at night due to their physical weakness. Profuse sweating is not conducive to postpartum rest for mothers.
Compared to letting myself and my mother-in-law's elders wipe their bodies, my husband is undoubtedly the best choice. The husband can massage the wife's body and wipe the sweat to relieve the wife's physical fatigue caused by childbirth.
Since this kind of massage and sweating will not be rare on the first night after giving birth, the husband needs to wipe the wife constantly, which is a test of the husband's patience and concern for the wife.
Husbands who can be patient and insist on doing it must feel more distressed about their wife's hard work in the production process. Then you should congratulate your wife for not marrying the wrong person.
- Clean up "lochia"
Newborn mothers often secrete a substance called "lochia" for physiological reasons. It's a mixture of blood, necrotic decidua, and other tissue, with an unpleasant appearance and a pungent odor.
This kind of thing, which is similar to a female "aunt", will definitely cause discomfort to the mother if it is replaced by the elders in the family, but the husband can avoid this situation well.
At the same time, the husband can also relieve his wife's anxiety through his own practical actions, telling his wife that "lochia" is a situation that every mother will encounter, which shows that the body is working hard to recover, so that the wife can rest in peace.