Husband coaxed twin daughters to sleep, mother pushed the door 10 minutes later and broke into laughter when she saw this scene
Yesterday, I saw an interesting story shared by a friend in the circle of friends. Xiao Tian and her husband got married the year before, and gave birth to a pair of very cute and lovable twin daughters. Most of the time at home, Xiao Tian is responsible for taking care of the two babies. On this day, because Xiaotian's company has an urgent copy that needs to be expelled immediately, Xiaotian can only give her two twin daughters to her husband to take care of, and ask her husband to put the daughters to sleep. Ten minutes later, Xiaotian completed the emergency copy, opened the door to observe the situation, but the scene in front of her made Xiaotian laugh. The husband is bare chested, holding a daughter in one hand, and making weird faces! The child in his arms also giggled and laughed. Xiao Tian really laughed out loud when she saw her husband like this!
So, what is the difference between a father and a mother with a baby?
- The father has thick branches and leaves, and the mother is as delicate as water.
This is due to the special psychology of women and men. Most men are more rational, while women are more emotional. Therefore, women tend to pay more attention to details when taking care of their children. Therefore, mothers pay more attention to children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, while fathers pay more attention to the whole. These small details are often overlooked. The father is the most important leader.
- The father pays more attention to the independence of the child.
Because of the blood of the father, the father pays more attention to the cultivation of the independence of the child. Fathers always let their children try themselves in some small things, such as dressing, doing housework, and cultivating children's independence. And because mothers dote on their children more often, the cultivation of their children's independence will be weaker.
- Mothers are more intimate with their children.
Many men in today's society are still relatively ignorant when they become fathers, so they still have a strong playfulness. In this regard, women's natural personality makes mothers treat children more intimately and take care of children than fathers. more prominent and delicate. In the daily life of the child, it is easier to pay attention to the child's words and deeds.
In daily life, what should a husband do?
- Help your daughter-in-law bring the baby.
Some men feel that they have already worked hard at work and should do nothing at home, but what they don't know is that women have endured the pain of pregnancy and childbirth in October, and they have to take care of their children later. Taking care of children is a very hard thing, so in life, the husband should help his daughter-in-law to take care of the baby in his spare time, so that the family can be happy.
- The husband communicates with his daughter-in-law more.
Many times, women are prone to postpartum sequelae after giving birth, and some even suffer from depression. This is because women have suffered serious psychological and physical injuries after giving birth, and it is very hard to take care of children later. Therefore, in daily life, the husband should communicate with his daughter-in-law a lot, and try to comfort the daughter-in-law as much as possible when the daughter-in-law is sad, which can also relieve the daughter-in-law to the greatest extent.
- Be more concerned about your daughter-in-law.
Some men have chauvinism, thinking that it is only natural for their daughter-in-law to take care of their children, and their family members do not help their daughter-in-law to take care of their children. In this way, the daughter-in-law will be isolated and helpless, so the husband should pay more attention to the daughter-in-law in daily life, and take the daughter-in-law out for relaxation when the daughter-in-law takes care of the baby. This is also good for the relationship between husband and wife.
