How can I help my child deal with weakness?

Personality is a psychological characteristic of an individual. Timidity, lack of independence, excessive attachment to relatives, and fear of speaking in front of strangers are the most prominent manifestations of vulnerable children. During the character formation period, if the child shows the defect of character will, parents should pay attention to it and help and guide it in time.

First, let children learn to live and learn to master themselves. One of the important reasons for the weakness of the child's character is the replacement of the parents. Some parents are obedient to their children and don't let their children do anything. This is tantamount to depriving the child of the opportunity to express himself, leading to the shrinking of the child's ability to live independently.

Second, let children meet their peers and exercise themselves. Psychologists point out that a child's character is most evident in play and in everyday life, which is the best way to correct bad character. Imitation is a major characteristic of children. Parents should let their frail children often spend time with brave friends, and then do some things that they usually dare not do, let them get in touch, and slowly get exercise.

Third, respect the child and don't expose the child's shortcomings in public. Relatively speaking, children with weak personality are introverted and emotionally fragile, and parents should pay special attention to protecting their children's self-esteem. If a child's shortcomings are exposed in public, it will damage the child's dignity, and invisible bad stimuli will strengthen the child's weakness.

Fourth, let the children speak boldly. To do this, the effort is still on the parents. First of all, parents should be careful not to beat or force their children to speak in person. Second, you can invite some children of the same age and weaker characters to participate in group activities. At this time, parents will guide or simply avoid it, allowing them to have a free language space. If conditions permit, parents can often take their children to a place with a wide view and a large space to encourage their children to vent their anger.