The father's surname is 'chicken', the mother strongly requests to follow the mother's surname, and the grandmother's random name turns the tide

We will learn Baijia surnames since we were young. Of course, we know that there will be many surnames in our impression, but the most commonly used ones are more than a dozen or so. The rest of the surnames are really hard to see, but they are Yet it exists.

If you encounter such a rare surname, it is estimated that there will be a lot of trouble when choosing a name.

The surname ''Chicken'' probably would shake their heads to indicate that they had never heard of it, but Mr. Chicken was surnamed Chicken. When he and his wife got married, his wife had already taken a long-term view.

She said that the surname of her husband is really too rare, and it is not very pleasant to be called, so if she has a child in the future, she must use her surname.

As a young man, Mr. Chicken actually doesn't care too much about the surname of the child, but his mother-in-law objected. In her traditional thinking, the child must have the father's surname.

Because Mr. Chicken's wife was not pregnant at the time, this matter was left unresolved.

But seeing that they have been married for two years, Mr. Chicken's wife is also successfully pregnant, seeing her belly getting bigger and bigger, the matter of naming the child must be put on the agenda.

At this time, the mother-in-law spoke to let the daughter-in-law raise the baby with peace of mind. As for the name of the child, it was covered by herself.

During the prenatal check-up, they had already learned that Mr. Ji's wife was pregnant with twins, which naturally increased the difficulty of naming the children, but the mother-in-law was very confident.

When she named her child and told her daughter-in-law, Mr. Chicken's wife had nothing to say, because she couldn't pick out anything wrong.

The names my mother-in-law gave to the two children were Ji Min and Ji Zhi. I have to say that any name can give people a thumbs up. No wonder Mr. Ji's wife can only agree.

What are the negative effects of having a bad child's name?

1. Let the child have low self-esteem

Although our names only need to be introduced or written, but we don't need to call them every day, but they appear in the mouths of others almost every day.

If the child's name has some inappropriate parts, it will naturally make the child ridiculed by others, and the classmates will give the child nicknames, which can easily lead to the child's inferiority complex, become more and more unsocial, and seriously affect their normal life. social contact.

2. Affect parent-child relationship

When children are dissatisfied with their own name, they will transfer this resentment to their parents, thinking that their parents did not name themselves seriously at that time, and even think that their parents do not care about them.

This can easily affect the relationship between parents and children, leading to psychological barriers in children and growing estrangement from their parents.

What should parents pay attention to when naming their children?

1. Try to avoid names with homonyms

The Chinese character culture is extensive and profound, and there are often characters with the same pronunciation and different meanings.

This requires parents to pay attention when naming their children, and never fall into the pit, otherwise the child's name is likely to have a homonym, which will make the child feel very embarrassed and even affect their emotions.

2. Try not to pursue fashion in the name

Some young parents especially like to pursue fashion, so they will give their children some popular names as names.

For example, a father who loves to play games named his child King of Glory. Although the child's name will be very loud for a while, but a few years later, when the game of King of Glory has withdrawn from the stage of history, the child's name will obviously be lost meaning.

3. The name should not be too complicated

In order to avoid repetition of the child's name, some parents give their children some very complicated characters as names.

These complex characters not only have a lot of strokes, and it is difficult for children to write, but also easily cause the name to look inconsistent and affect the beauty of the name.

Of course, if you encounter complicated words and uncommon words, then it is estimated that the child's name will not even be recognized by the teacher.

So try to give your child a good name. Although it can't change the child's fortune, at least it can satisfy the child and won't make the child feel inferior and other bad feelings.