If the child has these 4 kinds of 'performance', it may be psychologically unhealthy, parents should not be careless

Parents pay more attention to their children's physical health, but often ignore their children's mental health. Especially when the child is young, due to the lack of language expression ability, it is difficult for parents to find some psychological problems in children.

However, it is difficult to find, which does not mean that it cannot be found. Some psychological problems of children will be manifested through some of the children's usual behaviors. So today, cat dad will share 4 such behaviors with you. After reading it, I hope parents can pay attention to it.

Children who like to quarrel with their parents

If your child always loves to quarrel with you from time to time, it means that there is a certain psychological problem in the child. Children in this situation often become very impatient when they are scolded by their parents for doing something wrong, and they are relatively weak in character and have weaker psychological endurance. Parents should reflect on whether they did not take into account their children's self-esteem when scolding their children. Parents should communicate with their children on an equal footing in order to solve the problem slowly. Children should not be impatient, and parents should follow suit.

Child in Cold War with Parents

This kind of child is still very special. It is the complete opposite type from the above children. When scolded, this kind of child will not behave at all, even like a normal person. Generally, these children like to be alone in the corner, do not say anything, and act very dull. If parents behave like this, they must consider whether the child is autistic. This kind of psychological damage to children is still quite large. Parents should try to open their hearts and guide them out with a positive attitude.

biting fingers biting nails

This behavior is very normal in children's infancy, and parents don't need to worry too much. However, if the child still has this habit when he is 4 or 5 years old, it is likely that he has suffered some major psychological stimulation or trauma. For example, during the weaning period, the mother fostered the child in the grandmother's house in order to force the weaning, and did not let the child see to mom and so on.

Biting nails and fingers has become a way for children to soothe themselves. When children are nervous and disturbed, they will habitually bite their fingers.

Sensitive and suspicious, for fear of offending others

Children with low self-esteem will become very sensitive and suspicious, and they will cry endlessly because of some trivial things. Always be careful in doing things, afraid of offending others, afraid not to look down on yourself. Parents need to pay attention immediately if they find that their children are obedient and please others.

Inferiority has a very negative impact on the child's future development. Parents can help their children in the following four ways to gradually let their children get out of the haze of inferiority.