Don't regret not having 'one son and one daughter', the best family combination is actually this
In recent years, with the serious aging of the population, China has opened up the ''two-child'' policy. I have a sister who grew up from childhood. I gave birth to a daughter a few years ago. After the policy was opened, I had been preparing for pregnancy for a long time and had a second daughter. When I went to see her at her house two days ago, her words were full of regret. When asked why, she said ''Everyone wants a son and a daughter, so that's a good word! ''Looking at her mentality, I seriously told her''the best family combination is really not one son and one daughter! You don't have to feel sorry! Two daughters are the best combination! ''My best friend smiled brightly.
So why is the best combination two daughters?
- The daughter is a caring little padded jacket.
Friends with children all know that the biggest difference between a daughter and a son is that a daughter is a caring little padded jacket. makes parents very distressed. Daughters often take the initiative to help their parents with household chores, and keep the house in good order without worrying about their parents.
- The daughter will be good and obedient.
According to scientific research, girls are generally more emotional than boys, and emotional children will stick to their parents and say nice things. Boys, on the other hand, are rational and indifferent, and when they grow up, only daughters will usually say sympathetic words to their parents. So the two daughters are more caring and sensible.
- My daughter will not be under too much pressure.
This is not to say that "preference is given to sons and daughters", but that sons marry wives and daughters marry men. After a daughter is married, there will be fewer conflicts, and a son will always face tension in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so the pressure of having a daughter will not be too great. The cost of the daughter's marriage will not be too stressful.
What about the family mix of ''one son and one daughter'' and ''two sons''?
1. ''One son and one daughter'' is very complete.
As the old saying goes, one son and one daughter is a good word. A pair of sons and daughters can experience and experience the naughty son and the caring of the daughter. If the family is an older brother and younger sister, and the older brother dotes on the younger sister, this might not be a happy ending! And if it is a family combination of a sister and a brother, it is also very good. Because the elder sister can also take care of the younger brother, so the family is also happy and beautiful! So the old people say, ''One son and one daughter'' family is very complete.
2. ''Two sons'' are sweet little burdens.
The family of two sons is also very good. The son is married to a wife, so he will stay with the old man, but the pressure on the parents of a family with two sons will be greater. When I was a child, my son would be naughty, and he would be more troubled when he was educated. When he grew up, he needed a large amount of money to marry a wife. Therefore, raising two sons is a certain burden, but this burden is sweet and warm, and it is what parents are willing to give.
In fact, I want to tell you here that whether it is a son or a daughter's family combination, as long as they live a warm and happy life, it is the best family combination, and no one can envy them. Maybe while you are envious of others, others are also envious of your happy life. So don't be too stubborn about having a boy or a daughter, and don't regret not having a son and a daughter, and guarding your own little happiness and sweetness, isn't it the best happiness?
