Be a person, you can be willful, but there are 3 things you can't afford to squander

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In fact, when any resource is exhausted, this is common sense knowledge that conforms to the laws of nature.

The same is true for people.

Sometimes, I always don't know how to cherish, I don't know how valuable it is to have. When I was young, I wantonly squandered some valuable things. As a result, I regretted my ignorance and self-will when I was old.

As the saying goes, prevent micro-duplication. Knowing early to cherish and cherish, will allow yourself to have no worries at all times, and ensure the peace and smoothness of your life.

For each of us, there are 3 things in our life, and we should not waste them easily no matter what.

You must know how to cherish it, and don't regret it until you lose it.

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First: good health

Good health is the capital that a person has everything.

There is a popular saying on the Internet that health is "1", and only after "1" can there be "0". Without health, there is nothing. This is a very philosophical and profound statement, which deserves our attention.

Although everyone's life is under a lot of pressure now, they are all working hard for life, but even so, don't ignore or completely take your health seriously.

Some chicken soup articles say "hard work is to work hard", which is really absurd.

No matter how lofty ideals and ambitions we have, and how many responsibilities we need to take on ourselves, we only have one life, and the value of life is above everything else. The premise of respecting ideals and careers is to respect life first.

Over the years, sudden deaths caused by staying up late and working hard have continued to occur. Some people even lost their precious lives before the age of 30, which is really regrettable.

There are also young people who are self-reliant, energetic, strong, live an irregular life, drink alcohol, go to nightclubs, and play mobile phones desperately at night. These behaviors are all competing with their own lives and do not know how to cherish and care. Own.

There are a lot of high blood pressure, diabetes, and cardiovascular diseases that only old people get in the past, and they are getting younger and younger. These are the consequences of not knowing how to appreciate your own health.

So, don't splurge on your health.

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Second: interpersonal relationships

Humans are group animals, and social interaction and interpersonal relationships are necessary for everyone's life. But relationships are not an inexhaustible resource, nor are they set in stone.

Whether it's friendship or love, it actually belongs to the category of interpersonal relationships. A life with friends around us, relatives at home, someone to love, and someone to accompany not only meets our spiritual needs, but also provides strong external support when we need help.

Therefore, if you have a good relationship around you, you should cherish it, and cherish those around you who treat you as friends, who are willing to pay for you, and those who are willing to help you when you are in trouble. This is yours, a priceless spiritual treasure.

Don't think that if others treat you well, others should pay for you. Such thinking is too selfish and too narrow. And don't care about other people's feelings unscrupulously and hurt others ruthlessly because others care about you.

People need to know how to be grateful, whether they are your friends, lovers, or relatives, if others treat you well, you must cherish them, love them, cherish your relationship, and have the kindness of repaying kindness.

Don't wait for other people's hearts to cool down, their feelings to fade, and to leave, to know the value of feelings.

The older you get, the fewer people around you, and in the end, you become a loner, with a desolate night scene and a lonely old age. If it really reaches that point, what a failure of human life.

Cherish those around you who are willing to accompany you.

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Third: Wealth

The old people often say: "It is not true happiness that a person enjoys happiness when he is young. It is a blessing when he is old." The "blessing" here is not only the filial piety of children and the abundance of children and grandchildren, but also the quality of life and material things in old age. sufficiency.

In this world, the hardest thing to get is money, and the easiest thing to lose is money.

Our fathers lived very frugally, their clothes were torn, they had to be mended and put on again, and they were reluctant to throw away the leftovers. Their behavior made young people not used to seeing them and felt that they lived too wronged themselves, especially It's so good now that there's no need for this at all.

How can young people understand that our fathers have come from hard times. They know how hard it is to have no money, no food, and no clothes to wear.

Therefore, when you are rich, when you live a prosperous life, don't forget to be frugal, forget the fine quality of our Chinese nation's diligence and thriftiness, and let go of the extravagance of your own wealth.

The ancients said that from frugality to luxury is easy, and from luxury to frugality is difficult. Even if you have gold and silver, if you don't know how to be frugal, you will have time to sit and eat sooner or later.

People should have the right to enjoy a good life, but nothing should go too far. If the pursuit of material enjoyment, comparing enjoyment with others, and eating, drinking, and having fun are the theme of life, such a life will be too superficial and pale.

Living without a plan, indulging one's desires, squandering one's wealth, and when you really need it, you are stretched out and run out of ammunition and food. That kind of embarrassment, that kind of embarrassment, is really uncomfortable.

Many young people like to have fun in time, and even spend tomorrow's money today. This is really a shortsightedness and an attitude that is irresponsible to themselves and even their families.

Therefore, one must have a long-term vision, and don't wait until you have no money to know that a penny will really stun a hero.

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Anyway, being human, you can be willful, but there are 3 things you can't afford to squander.

One is health, one is connections, and one is wealth.

Especially when you are young, you should always be vigilant. For some things, after squandering it, there is really nothing left to regret.

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